Ep. 237: Feeling Alone as a Dad? Here’s How to Build A Network Of Godly Counsel

Ever feel like you're carrying everything alone and you're not even sure how it got this way? Scripture is clear: wise men don't walk solo. In this episode, Kent and Lawson talk about how to surround yourself with godly counsel, why "I don't have time" is usually a smokescreen, and what's really going on underneath it (apathy, arrogance, or insecurity).

You'll also get a simple, free tool you can use right away: the Iron Circle Worksheet, created with our partners at Man in the Mirror. It helps you identify the growth areas you actually need help with, then connect those needs to real men who can sharpen you.

If you want 2026 to look different, this is a great place to start: build your circle, get wisdom, and stop trying to do life alone.

 

Download the Iron Circle Worksheet TODAY: https://manhoodjourney.org/iron-circle

Learn more about our new partners here: https://maninthemirror.org/

 

Here are some of our favorite episodes that hit on the same themes of community and walking through life surrounded by godly counsel:

Episode 214: https://manhoodjourney.org/podcast/whose-shoulders-are-you-standing-on/

Episode 188: https://manhoodjourney.org/podcast/building-stronger-relationships/

Episode 162: https://manhoodjourney.org/podcast/sharing-a-piece-of-yourself-with-others/

 

We've launched video now! Check out the video version of today's episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/X0dZgWc37aU

 

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About our hosts:

• Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps dads become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He's appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He's spoken at parenting and men's events, and authored four books. The first, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. The latest, Don't Bench Yourself: How to Stay in the Game Even When You Want to Quit, aims to help dads stay present in their roles as fathers and husbands even when they feel like giving up. Kent's life has been radically affected by godly mentors and his lovely wife, April. They have been married thirty years and have five sons and one daughter-in-law. He lives in Louisville, Kentucky.

 

• Lawson Brown is husband to his high school sweetheart, a father of two young adult daughters, has been a business leader since 1995, and is a former Marine. He served as a small group leader for teenage boys for many years, helped start the Christian media ministry City on a Hill Productions, then later Sanctuary – a new church in Kennesaw, GA – where he served as its leader for Men's Ministry. Lawson's journey of faith has always been centered in a grounding from his wife, Audrey, and supported throughout by many men whom he's found as brothers along the way. His family is nearing an empty nest phase and has recently relocated to the Florida Gulf Coast beaches area.