We sat down with BDSM & rope bondage superstars, Graydancer & Naiia, to talk about the BDSM “scene”. Some assume this group is ripe with open communication, ethical behavior, and clearly negotiated consent because those concepts are cornerstones of BDSM. It turns out kink communities have their fair share of toxicity and inequity too-- just like most other social groups. Gray & Naiia share some innovative perspectives on these issues and discuss possible solutions. They’ve even implemented some themselves, namely popularizing an “open source” style conference model that is revolutionizing the way the rope and kink communities operate. Interestingly, this conversation doesn’t just apply to kink-- most communities (yoga, theater, work groups, bowling leagues-- you name it!) can benefit from this episode. Appropriately we recorded this live at the COPE BDSM conference which was the perfect backdrop! (Original photo used in our episode art by Mistress Mayhem)
Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!____________________________________
Episode 52 Links
Graydancer Website http://graydancer.com Naiia Website http://naiiabound.com Grue Website http://GRUE.space Ropecraft Website http://ROPECRAFT.net $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY Graydancer “kinky sketchnotes” Patreon http://patreon.com/graydancer Graydancer Twitter https://twitter.com/Graydancer Naiia Twitter https://twitter.com/naiia Kink Academy online learning video library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Uberrime Dildos https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/uberrime-handmade-dildos Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/Episode 52 Sponsor & Giveaway Info
10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)Dom & sub Dynamics Free Kink & BDSM Education Summit - Bonus
What's a Kinky Switch? w/ Queen Ana Blue - 213
Introducing Holly Randall Unfiltered – Adriana Chechik on Her Wild Career
Fluid Relationships vs. Polyamory with Kate Loree - 212
Kink Education Freestyle Reddit Edition - Sunny Megatron 211
Emotional Dysregulation in Relationships with Megan Bhatia - Ep 210
Body Fluid Fetish & Fantasy with Luna Matatas - 209
BONUS Introducing: Erotic Short Stories "The High-Class Escort"
Mental Health & Polyamory with Kate Loree - 208
Ask Yourself About Consent with Kitty Stryker - 207
Mutual Masturbation May with jessica drake - 205
BONUS Double Teamed with Cami & Niki - Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWBs Preview
How to Love Yourself with Lee Harrington - Ep 205
Authentic Kink & BDSM Community Lessons w/ Mollena Williams-Haas Ep 204 (Pt. 2)
Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas - From Sluts & Scholars Podcast
Gaslighting, Red Flags & Manipulation - Cultivating H.E.R Space Podcast Preview
Lessons from the BDSM Leather Community with Mollena Williams-Haas - Ep 203
Pornhub on Netflix & Free Speech with Mike Stabile - Ep 202
Racial Inequity, BIPOC Sexuality & The Pleasure Revolution with Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons - Ep 201
Gender Norms In the Kink Community with Veronika Kestrel - Ep 200
Create your
podcast in
minutes
It is Free