Episode 252: The Leader You’re Not with Scott Borba

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In Episode 252 of Leaning Into Leadership, Darrin Peppard sits down with Scott Borba, superintendent–principal in California’s Central Valley and author of The Leader You’re Not. Together, they explore leadership identity, the cost of perfectionism, imposter syndrome, delegation, boundaries, and why sustainable leadership begins with self-awareness.

This is a candid, reflective conversation for leaders at any stage — especially those feeling the weight of trying to do it all.

Key Topics & Takeaways

1. Why early-career leaders often fall into the “superhero” trap
2. The unique challenges of serving as both superintendent and principal
3. How COVID forced many leaders to confront identity, confidence, and calling
4. The importance of trusted mentors and leadership networks
5. Why perfectionism quietly fuels burnout and imposter syndrome
6. How delegation and asking better questions build leadership capacity
7. The cost of saying “yes” — and why boundaries are not selfish
8. Why leaders must stop comparing themselves to “Facebook leadership”
9. The freedom that comes from knowing who you’re not as a leader
10. Why legacy matters most at home — where leaders are not replaceable

Memorable Moments

1. “Trying to be the perfect leader kept me from growing.”
2. “Every yes comes with a cost.”
3. “You’re not replaceable at home — and that matters.”
4. “Delegation isn’t weakness; it’s leadership.”

About the Guest: Scott Borba

Scott Borba is a superintendent–principal serving a small, rural school district in California’s Central Valley. With over 20 years in school leadership, Scott is deeply committed to relational leadership, mentorship, and sustainability in the profession.

He is the author of The Leader You’re Not: Why It’s Just as Important as the Leader You Are, a reflective exploration of leadership identity, self-awareness, and letting go of unrealistic expectations. Scott also teaches in a university administrator preparation program and leads a countywide leadership network focused on connection, growth, and reducing burnout.

Resources & Links

1. 📘 The Leader You’re Not by Scott Borba
2. 📩 Connect with Scott Borba ( sborba52@gmail.com)

Final Thought

Leadership isn’t about being everything to everyone.

It’s about knowing yourself well enough to lead with clarity, humility, and purpose.