How Much Of Your Thinking Is Really Yours?

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What if kindness wasn’t a mood but a method? We sit down with leadership coach and former educator Matthew Reynolds to explore how a daily equity lens can turn compassion into measurable change at work, in classrooms, and across communities. Matthew shares the origin story behind Crafting Your Equity Lens—born from years of watching metrics eclipse humanity—and why co-creating norms, inviting play, and centering dignity can transform culture faster than any slogan.

We dig into the core question, “How much of my thinking is my thinking?” and unpack how culture, trauma, and hierarchy script our choices until we rewrite them with intention. Matthew, through his consulting group MRRConsulting maps a clear path from introspection to action: a scaffolded workshop, accountability pods, 90‑day challenges, and a living equity lens you read daily and revise as you grow. He offers a powerful advocacy example—creative, nonviolent, and consent-aware—that shows how to disrupt harm while honoring everyone’s dignity.

Along the way, we challenge performative protest, contrast rugged individualism with belonging, and outline concrete steps to start today: define your terms, map your influences, pick one behavior to disrupt, and one practice to divest from. You’ll leave with tools to build psychological safety, strengthen teams, and design community action that is authentic, effective, and humanizing. If you’re ready to move past good intentions and build a kinder culture on purpose, this conversation will meet you where you are and invite you forward.

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