You Don’t Own the Customer | Ep. 49

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You think that client is “yours”? Think again.

In this episode, Frazier (COVID-stricken but still showing up) and Michael (running on espresso and spite) break down a brutal but necessary truth: you don’t own the customer, you’re just renting attention.

From trigger leads to servicing transfers to Rocket buying Mr. Cooper, the guys explain why your feelings don’t belong in the pipeline and how whining about lost deals won’t get you paid. This is about controlling what you can control — and mastering retention like a pro.

If you’re tired of losing past clients and still blaming the system, this one will hit different

What You’ll Learn

• Why "owning the customer" is a myth that will keep you broke
• The real risk behind complacency and client silence
• What top producers actually do to retain business
• How to run a smarter, tighter, more memorable follow-up game
• Why you need to start investing in client retention — not just lead gen

Real Talk Moments

• “You’re never gonna get a CTC on your feelings.”
• “Valuable is valuable. Be a utility. Be unforgettable.”
• “Every loan is a rental — unless you earn the right to get called back.”

Tactical Ideas from the Episode

• Host small mixers or client events that build community
• Bake in strike-rate conversations within 30–60 days post-close
• Invest a % of every commission check into client retention
• Show up with personalized messages, not cookie-cutter junk
• Build a system that makes you the first call, not the last memory

Why This Episode Matters

If you’re getting mad about losing clients, you’ve already lost. The game in 2026 is about connection, consistency, and control — and this episode will show you how to win it.

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