Ep. 106: He/We Accidentally Slept With a Trans Woman - Here’s What Happened

Episode 106 Show Notes

This week starts with one of those stories that makes everyone stop and go, "Wait... what?"

A listener shares a hookup that took a turn he never saw coming, leaving Richard with about a hundred questions, Lauren with a few clinical observations, and all of us wondering how we'd react if we found ourselves in the exact same situation.

From there, things somehow get even more interesting.

Haley joins us because she's trying to do something that terrifies most people in the lifestyle—pick up a complete stranger who isn't in it. Is there a right way to tell someone you're happily married but your husband already knows you're interested? Richard coaches her through his favorite pickup strategy, Lauren weighs in, and everyone agrees there's a very real chance this could either end in fireworks or become the most awkward gym experience of all time.

Along the way we dive into attraction, labels, bisexuality, the overlap between the lifestyle and the LGBTQ+ community, why these conversations aren't always as simple as they seem, and why Richard somehow manages to turn every serious discussion into an argument about penis depth.

Oh... and Lauren has new boobs.

• Can you tell if someone is flirting with you?
• Would you ever hook up with someone outside the lifestyle?
• The biggest mistakes people make approaching "vanilla" couples.
• EVENTS- SIN OCTOBER 2026
• FLIRT FEBRUARY 2027

Also in this episode: Meta deleted their Facebook account (again), Lauren's rebuilding from scratch and could use the follow, help me rebuild by clicking this link.

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