Sometimes, we can try to cover up our past pain with that which we can control-achievement, performance, and productivity. But at some point, those coping mechanisms cannot mask the hurt we are feeling deep inside anymore. What do you do when what you've done to run from your past no longer works to hide what you're truly feeling?
For Dr. Elizabeth (Ellie) Stevens, there came a point when what she did to keep the pain from her childhood sexual abuse at bay, no longer worked. She found that she could no longer hide behind performance and her achievements and instead had to face what was below the surface. It took another string of traumas including a sexual assault and traumatic brain injury to bring up the ache she had been ignoring, but when she did, she found that God invited her towards something new: freedom. Even when her poor decisions heaped shame on top of all she was enduring, she was able to start to experience the depth of God's love in the middle of the mess of emotions she was enduring. Now, as a psychiatrist, trauma survivor, and veteran, Dr. Stevens has taken what she has learned in her own journey to help veterans and first responders in theirs.
In this conversation, Davey talks with Dr. Stevens about how we often use achievement and performance to cope with our past, the power of God shown through our weakness, and how trauma can help us move from conditional to unconditional love.
If you find yourself trying to hide your past pain through achievement and performance and you are ready to experience the freedom God has for you, this episode will encourage you that God wants to release you from that which threatens to hold you back.
Website: www.drelizabethstevens.com
www.advancingwarriors.org
Book: Unshackled: Finding God's Freedom from Trauma
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Episode 320 - The Need For A Wise Guide in Your Healing with Ken Roberts, Teresa Glantz, Jen Ball and Karissa Sprinkle
Episode 319 - Don't Give Up Just Yet with Nick Connolly
Episode 318 - If I Don't Laugh, I'll Cry with Molly Stillman
Episode 317 - When Your Way Isn't Working with Kyle Idleman
Episode 316 - Even If He Doesn't with Kristen LaValley
Episode 315 - Finding Purpose through Vulnerability with Raleigh Sadler
Episode 314 - Grace and Suffering with Philip Yancey
Episode 313 - Holding Onto Faith in Our Doubts with Laura Wifler
Episode 312 - In His Hands with Jessika Sanders
Episode 311 - Incurable Faith with Andrea Herzer
Episode 310 - The Marriage Gift with Aaron and Jennifer Smith
Episode 309 - Experiencing God's Strength in Your Weakness with Emily Jensen
Episode 308 - Made for People: Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship with Justin Whitmel Earley
Episode 307 - How Suffering Shapes Our Hearts with Andrew Peterson
Episode 306 - Practicing the Way with John Mark Comer
Episode 305 - The Continual Journey Towards Healing with Davey Blackburn, Aubrey Sampson and Eric Schumacher
Episode 304 - Walking into a New Year After Loss with Davey Blackburn
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