Losing the War over the Armrest: Are there unspoken rules you’ve assumed in your own mind that prevent you from speaking out or moving forward?

Have you ever found yourself conceding the armrest in a crowded theater or airplane, not out of generosity but out of habit, driven by a set of unspoken “rules” you’ve created in your mind? In this episode, we dive into these invisible boundaries—those subconscious assumptions and self-imposed constraints that govern our everyday actions. We’ll explore why we keep quiet, why we avoid conflict, and how these silent rules can prevent us from stepping into our full potential. Join us for a conversation about recognizing and redefining these assumptions, so you can stop losing battles you never wanted to fight and start moving forward with clarity and confidence.

 

Joining us this week is our first male guest, Bradley Weaver (https://bradleyweaver.net). He's spent a lifetime keeping quiet and just recently began finding his voice to speak up on things that are important to him. We can't wait for you to hear our conversation. 

 

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