Are you trying to get the attention of your Twin Flame by looking them up or orchestrating a run-in with them? Or, by contrast, are you actively trying to avoid or ignore them? If you answered yes to either, you are in your “push” energy. And when you “push”, your Twin Flame inevitably “pulls”. This is a mutually manipulative dance in which you both vie for control.
Of course, any sense of control is false and fear-based. The mind, which is only part of your earth-based experience, is never actually in control. Control belongs to your soul, which is eternal through all lifetimes and everything in between.
The goal of the push/pull phenomenon is to learn to let go of this need to control, and to let your soul take over. When you do, miracles tend to happen.
Quotes
• “There’s a belief that knowledge is power. You Google things, you have a quest and a search and a curiosity for information about things. You want to know things. That’s all fine and perfect–as a human being with a mind, that’s what the mind does, but why does the mind do that? Because it feels like the more it knows, the more in control it is.” (5:31 | Elle)
• "What the false sense of control gives the fear-based push/pull energy is a false sense of security. Your mind and your fear-based push/pull energy are never in control. Your soul is controlling everything, it’s orchestrating everything in your life, in every lifetime, between every lifetime. Your mind isn’t even there in between your lifetimes. You only get a mind when you come into physical form.” (6:35 | Elle)
• “The “push” energy feels like it’s in control by trying to get reactions and responses from the “pull” energy. The “pull” energy feels like it’s in control by focusing anywhere else but on the “push” energy.” (10:57 | Elle)
• “They’re both very manipulative. It’s a very manipulative game.” (11:23 | Elle)
“You can’t let go of your Twin Flame. What you want to let go of is, pretty much, the wheel. Sit back and let go of trying to control your journey.” (14:11 | Elle)
Links
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How to Magnetize Your Twin Flame Back Into Your Life
HELP! I Can't Stop The Obsessive Thoughts
How To Quickly Stop Feeding The Fear Which Is Keeping Your Twin Flame Away
Reconciling The Twin Flame Journey with Intentional Manifesting Using The Law of Attraction
How The Twin Flame Journey IS The Key To Success In Every Aspect Of Life
Why Your Life Needed To Be Upended By Your Twin Flame Journey
Lifting the Limitations That Block Love
Relax...You Have All Of Eternity
The Issue Of Religion And The Twin Flame Journey
Rites of Passage Along the Twin Flame Journey
Dating Other People While On The Twin Flame Journey
The Biggest Mistake People Make On A Twin Flame Journey
Ascension...What It Is & What It Looks Like
The “Tipping Point”
Unconditional Love For Others = Loving Yourself
Own Your Sh*t
Shift Happens
Your Fear-Based Energy... The Big Sellout
The Paradox of Time
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