YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, MEd
Society & Culture:Relationships
In the 5th episode or a 5-part series, Jodi Carlton and her co-host, Mona Kay from the Neurodiverse Love Podcast, delve into the personal experiences and critical insights into Navigating Neurodiverse Relationships. They provide a retrospective look at their marriages, both of which ended after two decades, and clarify that their mission is not to advocate for divorce but to assist individuals in understanding their relationships and exploring options for moving forward. This episode covers various unconventional solutions they considered in their attempts to save their marriages. The episode underscores the importance of identifying and evaluating options within neurodiverse relationships and the necessity of making informed decisions that are best for all parties involved. Jodi and Mona share their processes of coming to terms with the reality of their situations and the steps they took towards healthier futures for themselves and their families.
00:00 Exploring Neurodiverse Relationships
01:06 Power of Personal Journeys
02:16 The Support Group: Navigating Your Neurodiverse Relationship
02:49 The Impact of Hearing from Different Neurotypes
06:54 Exploring Options in Neurodiverse Relationships
09:25 Discovering Creative Solutions
14:01 The Challenges of Traditional Marriage Expectations
18:46 The Role of External Changes in Relationship Dynamics
23:30 Understanding Individual and Collective Needs in a Relationship
25:20 Navigating External Pressures and Internal Choices
28:01 The Impact of Neurodiversity on Relationships
31:13 The Journey to Self-Discovery and Healing
36:03 Healing, Regulation, and Moving Forward
41:16 Reflecting on Parenting, Mistakes, and Growth
45:52 Concluding Thoughts on Navigating Neurodiverse Relationships
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👩💼 Hi, I'm Jodi Carlton, a leading world expert on adult #neurodiverserelationship dynamics and interpersonal #communication. I am a seasoned professional with 20+ years of experience as a #therapist and #relationshipcoach specializing in #autism, #ADHD, #anxiety, #depression, and #abuse. I am #trauma certified and trained in Accelerated Resolution Therapy and hypnosis.
MY PERSONAL STORY: Although I have professional counselor education and training, my life experiences in my own neurodiverse marriage, as a parent to my #autisticdaughter and #adhd son, and my relationships with other neurodiverse family and friends have been my personal training ground. I am also a survivor of narcissistic abuse and have experienced the narc abuse cycle in multiple relationships. I have battled and healed from the codependency that results from having an abusive childhood.
QUIZZES: I have developed customized quizzes for you to identify traits of neurodiversity as well as toxic personality traits in partners. Take a free quiz at: http://jodicarlton.com
COMPREHENSIVE RELATIONSHIP EVALUATION: Assesses both partners to highlight unique traits and characteristics in areas such as personality, sensory processing, logic & reasoning, empathy, memory, problem-solving, and more. This data reveals how a couple's differences are affecting their relationship. The purpose is not to identify one partner as "abnormal," but to understand how partners are different from one another.
COACHING: My mission is to help you get clarity about yourself and your relationships to make informed choices, heal from your own pain, and improve your overall quality of life. I coach individuals, couples, and families worldwide using a solution-focused approach that results in life-altering answers and real change.
🎙 PODCAST: Listen to the "YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship" podcast, which has been downloaded in over 70 countries on your favorite podcast platform or watch it here on YouTube.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSyXJdjUav7pSwpq7nmSdEQZMwiI3eqHR
💁♀️ COMMUNICATION COURSE: The world's first program that facilitates life-altering clarity and change for neurodiverse partners and couples who are stuck in a cycle of rehashing confusing and painful conflict and shutdown.
http://CracktheCommunicationCode.com
🌐 Visit me online at JodiCarlton.com to learn more and for more resources.
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BONUS: My Autistic Partner Changes But It Doesn’t Last
Now What? Deciding on a Path Forward in Your Neurodiverse Relationship
Don't Be The Titanic - Relationship Challenges Are Like Icebergs
Getting Out of Enemy Mode In Your Neurodiverse Relationship.
”When You Stop Recognizing Yourself, There’s Something Very Wrong”
Season 4 is Coming! 5 Steps for Navigating YOUR Neurodiverse Relationship
BONUS: ”We’re all a little narcissistic.” Debunking This Myth
BONUS: Autistic Narcissists Are Dangerous!
BONUS: Why does an autistic partner lie?
BONUS: I’m autistic. Why do I zone out when people are talking?
BONUS: Autism Relationship Tool - Images Versus Words
BONUS: How to Have a Safe Disagreement in Your Neurodiverse Relationship
BONUS: Boundaries and Dealbreakers
BONUS: Autism in Gay Men - Response to a YouTube Question
BONUS: ”It was the closest to hell I’ve ever been.”
BONUS: When Intimacy Used to Be Great
BONUS: ”How do we handle social outings with friends?”
BONUS: From Q & A ”How are autistic women different from men?”
BONUS: 5 Signs Your Partner May Be Autistic
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