By the Bi

447 - Is Pride Still Relevant

Every June, the world turns rainbow. Companies update their logos, Pride festivals fill city streets, and social media overflows with messages of support. For many LGBTQ+ people, it's a celebration of how far we've come. For others, it raises some uncomfortable questions.Has Pride become too commercial? Has it become less political? Has it become more inclusive—or less? And where do bisexual, kinky, non-monogamous, and other often-overlooked communities fit into modern Pride?In this Pride Month episode, Bradford and Angela explore the evolution of Pride from protest to party, discuss the rise of rainbow capitalism, tackle the perennial kink-at-Pride debate, and examine why bisexual people can still feel invisible in spaces that are supposed to celebrate the entire LGBTQ+ community.Whether you see Pride as a protest, a celebration, a memorial, or simply an excuse to wear too much glitter, join us as we ask: has Pride lost its edge, or is this simply what progress looks like?As always, expect thoughtful discussion, a few strong opinions, and probably at least one tangent.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereLeave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

446 - Discover Your Relationship Style

Angela and Bradford get delightfully real (and a little spicy) about The Bonding Project (https://www.bondingproject.com/) from the Center for Positive Sexuality; a research-driven relationship quiz that’s basically Myers-Briggs for intimacy, mapping how you bond across dimensions like stability vs exploration, independence vs togetherness, and structure vs flexibility. They tease apart the 16 relationship archetypes, then reveal their own results: Bradford as a Villager and Angela as a... well you'll have to listen and see! Using their dynamic as an example, they talk compatibility, friction points, and how shared rituals can keep love connected without feeling trapped. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereLeave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

445 - Finding Your People: Community and Connection

In this episode of By the Bi, we’re diving into the importance of community within bisexual, non-monogamous, and kink spaces. We talk about why having a sense of belonging matters so much, especially when your identity or lifestyle sits outside the mainstream and how the right community can provide support, validation, and genuine connection.We also get real about the challenges: showing up alone, navigating cliques, dealing with rejection, and figuring out where you actually fit. Plus, we share personal experiences from building our own community through events and Discord chats to those small moments that turn strangers into friends.If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite belong, or you’re still looking for your people, this episode is for you.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us hereLeave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

444 - Annual Check-In

In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together.We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and what’s quietly evolving—from emotional connection and long-term satisfaction to sex, intimacy, boundaries, and how desire changes over time. There’s tenderness, there’s friction, and there’s that charged in-between space where real connection lives.This episode isn’t advice or a relationship blueprint. It’s a candid look at what it takes to keep choosing each other (especially in non-monogamous, bisexual, and sex-positive relationships) when growth, pleasure, and practicality all collide.Listen with curiosity. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

443 - Jingle Balls

NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!)You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi, things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s tension, and yes—plenty of smooth, satisfying moments where everything is laid bare.Angela brings the precision, Bradford brings the chaos, and The Gentleman? Well… let’s just say he takes it like a champ. If you thought the last session was slick, wait until you hear what happens when the temperature rises again.Get ready for the return of the drip, the tug, and the irresistible urge to shout “just one more strip!” You know you’re curious. Go on… hit play.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.