By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with ...
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Episode List

444 - Annual Check-In

Feb 4th, 2026 2:18 AM

In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together.We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and what’s quietly evolving—from emotional connection and long-term satisfaction to sex, intimacy, boundaries, and how desire changes over time. There’s tenderness, there’s friction, and there’s that charged in-between space where real connection lives.This episode isn’t advice or a relationship blueprint. It’s a candid look at what it takes to keep choosing each other (especially in non-monogamous, bisexual, and sex-positive relationships) when growth, pleasure, and practicality all collide.Listen with curiosity. Take what resonates. Leave the rest.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

443 - Jingle Balls

Dec 24th, 2025 9:59 AM

NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!)You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi, things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s tension, and yes—plenty of smooth, satisfying moments where everything is laid bare.Angela brings the precision, Bradford brings the chaos, and The Gentleman? Well… let’s just say he takes it like a champ. If you thought the last session was slick, wait until you hear what happens when the temperature rises again.Get ready for the return of the drip, the tug, and the irresistible urge to shout “just one more strip!” You know you’re curious. Go on… hit play.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

442 - New Kink Unlocked

Dec 10th, 2025 8:52 AM

This week on By the Bi, Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming—and now he can’t stop thinking about it.Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it’s like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels to lean into the unknown, and why staying curious is one of the sexiest things you can do.Tune in for a spicy, surprising episode that proves the right hookup can do more than just hit the spot—it can change the game.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

441 - Xcape to the Tropics 2025 Live

Nov 19th, 2025 11:29 PM

This week on By the Bi, we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adventurous, and sometimes downright outrageous moments that make this event one of the lifestyle calendar’s most anticipated highlights.From themed parties and poolside flirtation to meaningful conversations and unforgettable play, this episode captures the essence of what it means to explore connection, freedom, and fun in a space built for expression and excitement. Plus, you’ll hear from a few familiar voices and maybe even some new ones as we bring the spirit of Xcape straight to your ears.Whether you were there or wish you had been, this episode is your all-access pass to the energy, intimacy, and joy of Xcape to the Tropics. Tune in, get turned on, and travel with us—no passport required.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

440 - Authenticity

Oct 15th, 2025 1:11 PM

Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back!This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show up as your whole self in everyday life, authenticity can be both empowering and terrifying. So what does it really mean to be authentic? And how do you maintain that honesty with yourself and others when vulnerability feels risky?We unpack our own journeys with embracing authenticity — the struggles, the breakthroughs, and the unexpected freedom that comes with being unapologetically real. From lifestyle events to everyday relationships, we explore how authenticity shapes connection, community, and confidence.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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