Earn Your Happy

The Simple Daily Practice That Helped Me Stop Spiraling

Overthinking isn’t a thinking problem. It’s a believing problem. In this episode, I go deeper into last week’s “Now, Later, Not For Me” framework and share the next layer of how to stop treating every thought in your head like it’s the truth. I share the 4 mental traps that keep you stuck, the reason your nervous system keeps sounding the alarm, and the pattern-interrupt technique I’ve used for years to retrain my brain. Tune in to learn how to stop over-believing fear and reprogram your default thoughts. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at http://workinggenius.com Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS Overthinking is a nervous system safety pattern. The 4 thought patterns that sabotage your confidence. How childhood embarrassment can shape your adult confidence. The physical “pattern interrupt” I use to stop fear thoughts mid-spiral. Why most people are exhausted by their thinking long before they’re exhausted by the work. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

How Melinda Maria Spigel Scaled Her Jewelry Brand From $1,500 to $20M (No Hype, Just Strategy)

Good news, you don’t have to go viral to have a 1M+ dollar business. In this episode, I sit down with Melinda Maria Spigel, founder of Melinda Maria Jewelry, to talk about why brand equity matters more than a “Taylor Swift moment”, how to use data without losing creativity, and the reality of being a founder for 20 years. We dive into her scrappy beginnings at a Starbucks card table, the "brutal" middle years of scaling, and the pivotal decision to step down as CEO to protect her zone of genius. Tune in to learn how to build a business that thrives on stability rather than hype. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at http://workinggenius.com Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Why there is no such thing as ONE “big break”. 08:00 The instinct that changed Melinda’s entire PR strategy. 12:00 Why even a Taylor Swift moment won’t sustain your business long term. 15:45 Tips to build brand equity that outlasts trends and hype. 18:30 How data and AI now shape product design and marketing decisions. 21:00 Are you the bottleneck in your business? 27:30 How do you know when it’s time to hire a CEO? 32:15 Why scaling from $1M to $10M is the hardest phase of business. 36:00 The traits Melinda had to develop to survive 20 years in business. 37:30 How opening a physical store strengthened brand community. 44:00 Why it is never too late to start a business. 47:00 The self-care habit that protects your creativity and longevity. RESOURCES Shop Melinda Maria Jewelry HERE Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Melinda: @melindamaria_jewelry

The $100K Communication Skill Most Entrepreneurs Avoid

People don’t lose in business because of a bad strategy. They lose because they never say what they actually want. They drag out negotiations, sugarcoat expectations, avoid clarity, and then wonder why they feel resentful, underpaid, or stuck in the wrong deal. In this episode, Chris and I break down the power of kind candor and why leadership is measured by how fast you can kindly tell the truth. We talk about the Candor Speed Principle, why delayed truth is actually damaging relationships, and how calm delivery gives you more power. Get ready to raise your standard for communication. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at http://workinggenius.com Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS The leadership metric most entrepreneurs completely ignore. Why delayed truth creates resentment and negotiation fatigue. The difference between kind candor and emotional reactivity. The KIND framework that changes how you handle hard conversations. The word track that lowers defensiveness instantly. What calm communication signals about your leverage. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

Turn Conversations Into Cash & Build a Brand People Trust Fast with Julie Cyvonne, Riley & Kaylie Miller

It doesn’t matter who you think you are if people aren’t experiencing you that way. In this episode, Chris and I sit down with our 3 VIP Mastermind Guests. Julie Cyvonne, an entrepreneur, microdosing expert, and facilitator, talks about how you’re actually perceived, feedback, discernment, and why high performers sometimes only use a fraction of their true potential. Then, Riley & Kaylie Miller of The Property Wives redefine shares about advocating for marginalized communities in real estate. We talk about radical empathy, viral growth, real estate strategy, and what actually happens when you refuse to shrink. Tune in to upgrade your operating system and lead with conviction. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at http://workinggenius.com Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 How people see you is your responsibility. 04:30 How to separate your worth from your business data. 07:30 The “rule of 3” Julie uses to decide which feedback to integrate. 11:30 How does a high performer go from good to truly great? 14:30 Why in-person retreats accelerate transformation faster than online coaching. 17:15 Are you avoiding the one thing that could set you free? 26:00 Meet Riley & Kaylie Miller of The Property Wives. 30:00 Creating the largest platform for safe relocation for the queer and trans community. 31:30 The barriers marginalized communities face in homeownership. 36:00 How to buy a home with only $1,000 out of pocket in Colorado. 38:00 How did you gain hundreds of followers on TikTok in a single day? 47:15 The 1-minute exercise that will instantly build empathy and leadership. RESOURCES Connect with Julie Cyvonne on Instagram: DM “JOURNEY” to take her FREE microdosing quiz Learn more about Julie’s upcoming retreats and programs HERE Learn more about the Safe Haven Homes Initiative HERE Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow glōci: @getgloci Follow Julie: @juliecyvonne Follow Riley & Kaylie Miller: @thepropertywives

The Audacity Skill | How to Build a "Safety Net" for Your Biggest Risks

What if the only thing standing between you and your next level isn’t strategy, but your fear of being misunderstood? In this episode, I share the lesson from my monthly Audacity Call about what it actually takes to go big. I talk about why your addiction to approval is killing your dreams, how to emotionally survive judgment, and ways to build a “safety net” before you take a big public risk. Tune in to learn how to expand your embarrassment tolerance, increase your risk capacity, and start practicing audacity in ways that compound into massive results. Check out our Sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Don’t wait, protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/EarnFree Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at http://Shopify.com/happy Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform built to help you connect with customers, boost engagement, and grow your business smarter. Get started for free today, or use code HAPPY50 to save 50% on Starter and Standard Plans for the first three months of an annual subscription. Just head to http://www.brevo.com/happy Working Genius - If you’re a CEO, an entrepreneur, or anyone who wants to level up, Working Genius helps you drop the shame around your weaknesses and focus on what you naturally do best. Take the Working Genius assessment and get 20% off with code EARN at http://workinggenius.com Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to http://Indeed.com/podcast right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. HIGHLIGHTS Why your addiction to approval is more dangerous than rejection. The safety net strategy that helps you recover faster when things go wrong. Why money grows at the speed of your nervous system. Audacity is a skillset, not a personality type. Being misunderstood is a prerequisite for doing anything meaningful. How to increase your “embarrassment tolerance” in life. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci