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412: Should You Combine Finances in Marriage? (What Actually Works)

New Book - Clever Girl Millionaire; A Guide to Redefining What's Possible, Turning Ambitions into Actions, and Dreams into Millions - Available to order now Managing money in a relationship is always a controversial topic. Should you use joint bank accounts, keep everything separate, or try a mix of both? On this episode, I am sharing the truth about navigating finances when you are in a committed relationship or married—including the system that works for my husband and me. We are diving into the hidden work of managing a household budget, the "mental load" of finances, and why trying to split things exactly 50/50 is often a recipe for disaster.  Whether you earn more than your partner, juggle the invisible workload, or are trying to get your spouse on board with investing, this playbook is for you. WHAT'S DISCUSSED:  Is a joint account better than separate accounts in marriage? How to recognize the "invisible workload" of financial management My personal "Hybrid System" that saved us so many arguments What to do if your partner isn't on board with budgeting or building wealth Why being single is a superpower when creating a financial plan.  Love is not a financial plan—teamwork is! Let's build a money system that works for your house, not anyone else's expectations.   More Clever Girl Finance Resources: 👋 New to Clever Girl Finance? Start here: https://clevergirlfinance.com/start-here ❤ Subscribe to the Clever Girl Finance newsletter for weekly motivation! clevergirlfinance.com/subscribe ❤ Get the best-selling Clever Girl Finance Books: clevergirlfinance.com/books ❤ Get access to 30+ free courses, worksheets, savings challenges, and our favorite banking resources: clevergirlfinance.com/course-packages ❤ Read the Clever Girl Finance Blog: clevergirlfinance.com/blog ❤ Follow us on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance

Clever Girl Millionaire is Officially Here + What I Want You To Take Away

My new Book - Clever Girl Millionaire; A Guide to Redefining What's Possible, Turning Ambitions into Actions, and Dreams into Millions - is available to order now! Today is the official launch day, and I am taking a moment behind the mic to celebrate with the community (YOU!) that made it all possible! This book is a manual for navigating the "messy middle" of your money. I dive into why you absolutely cannot shame yourself into wealth, how to dismantle "timeline anxiety" so you can build on your own clock, and the fundamental difference between saving for safety and investing for true freedom. Whether you are a "first-generation everything" trying to figure things out without a roadmap, or you are simply tired of operating in financial survival mode, this book is for you. Thank you for giving me the space to create this shame-free community; now, let's get to work and build your legacy! If you have already picked up your copy of Clever Girl Millionaire, thank you from the bottom of my heart! 🔗 Grab your copy here   More Clever Girl Finance Resources: 👋 New to Clever Girl Finance? Start here: https://clevergirlfinance.com/start-here ❤ Subscribe to the Clever Girl Finance newsletter for weekly motivation! clevergirlfinance.com/subscribe ❤ Get the best-selling Clever Girl Finance Books: clevergirlfinance.com/books ❤ Get access to 30+ free courses, worksheets, savings challenges, and our favorite banking resources: clevergirlfinance.com/course-packages ❤ Read the Clever Girl Finance Blog: clevergirlfinance.com/blog ❤ Follow us on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance

411: It's Not Too Late, You Are NOT Behind (Starting At 35, 45, 55...)

New Book - Clever Girl Millionaire; A Guide to Redefining What's Possible, Turning Ambitions into Actions, and Dreams into Millions - Available to order now Are you wondering if it's too late to build wealth in your 30s, 40s, or even 50s? If you've ever felt like you're behind financially or missed your chance to build real wealth, this podcast episode is for you. In today's conversation, I'm breaking down one of the biggest money myths—that if you're not rich by a certain age, you've failed. The truth is, wealth isn't built on someone else's timeline. Whether you're 35, 45, or 55, you still have time to create financial security, grow your money, and even build a path to becoming a millionaire. YOU'LL LEARN: Why you are NOT behind financially How to start building wealth later in life Real numbers that show what's still possible The mindset shifts you need to move forward with confidence Your past doesn't define your financial future. What matters most is what you choose to do next. If you're ready to stop feeling stuck and start making progress with your money, this is your sign to begin.   More Clever Girl Finance Resources: 👋 New to Clever Girl Finance? Start here: https://clevergirlfinance.com/start-here ❤ Subscribe to the Clever Girl Finance newsletter for weekly motivation! clevergirlfinance.com/subscribe ❤ Get the best-selling Clever Girl Finance Books: clevergirlfinance.com/books ❤ Get access to 30+ free courses, worksheets, savings challenges, and our favorite banking resources: clevergirlfinance.com/course-packages ❤ Read the Clever Girl Finance Blog: clevergirlfinance.com/blog ❤ Follow us on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance

410: How Teachers Can Build Wealth, Without Leaving The Classroom

New Book - Clever Girl Millionaire; A Guide to Redefining What's Possible, Turning Ambitions into Actions, and Dreams into Millions - Available to order now On this episode of the podcast, we're joined by Rose Mendonca, career educator and founder of Teacher Talks Money, for an important conversation about how teachers can build wealth without leaving the classroom. Rose is passionate about helping educators gain confidence in their finances and break the long-standing myth that teachers must struggle financially to be truly dedicated to their students. As a first-generation college student raised by immigrant parents from the Azores and a bilingual learner growing up in Lowell, Massachusetts, Rose's personal journey shaped her determination to succeed and empower others. Today, she uses her platform to help educators understand their financial options, plan for retirement, and build long-term wealth while continuing to do the work they love.   What Rose Discussed on the Podcast: Her personal journey and how it led to the creation of Teacher Talks Money. The myth that teachers must struggle financially to be devoted to their students—and why it needs to change. The real earning and wealth-building potential available to educators. How her experience as a first-generation college student and bilingual learner shaped her relationship with money and ambition. The biggest financial challenges teachers face and practical steps to overcome them. What educators should be doing now to build strong retirement plans. Mindset shifts teachers can make to move from financial limitation to long-term wealth building. Creative and lesser-known income strategies teachers can use without leaving the profession. How to balance a passion for teaching with the need for financial stability and independence. The role of mentorship and community in helping teachers build financial confidence. AND SO MUCH MORE   How to Keep Up With Rose: Website: teachertalksmoney.com Social media: @teachertalksmoney   More Clever Girl Finance Resources: 👋 New to Clever Girl Finance? Start here: https://clevergirlfinance.com/start-here ❤ Get the best-selling Clever Girl Finance Books: clevergirlfinance.com/books ❤ Get access to 30+ free courses, worksheets, savings challenges, and our favorite banking resources: clevergirlfinance.com/course-packages ❤ Read the Clever Girl Finance Blog: clevergirlfinance.com/blog ❤ Follow us on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance

409: How I Lost 40% of My Retirement Savings (A Huge Money Mistake)

New Book - Clever Girl Millionaire; A Guide to Redefining What's Possible, Turning Ambitions into Actions, and Dreams into Millions - Available to order now Let me share a money mistake that still stings to talk about. Before building Clever Girl Finance, writing books, and becoming a millionaire, I made a mistake that cost me 40% of my retirement savings overnight. Yes, 40%! I'm sharing the story of how I accidentally triggered taxes and penalties on my 401(k) after leaving a job, the lesson I learned the hard way, and what I would do differently today. If you're changing jobs or thinking about cashing out a 401(k), this is something you need to understand before making a move. What I share: The 401(k) rollover mistake that cost me thousands Why cashing out your retirement account can be extremely expensive The difference between a 401(k) rollover and a payout How to avoid early withdrawal penalties and taxes What to do with your 401(k) when leaving a job Money mistakes happen to everyone, even financial experts. What matters most is how you learn from them and rebuild. I share this story in Chapter 6 of my new book Clever Girl Millionaire, where I talk about real-life financial mistakes, lessons learned, and how resilience plays a role in building long-term wealth. If you've ever made a financial mistake, know this: your story isn't over. You can learn, recover, and keep building.   More Clever Girl Finance Resources: 👋 New to Clever Girl Finance? Start here: https://clevergirlfinance.com/start-here ❤ Subscribe to the Clever Girl Finance newsletter for weekly motivation! clevergirlfinance.com/subscribe ❤ Get the best-selling Clever Girl Finance Books: clevergirlfinance.com/books ❤ Get access to 30+ free courses, worksheets, savings challenges, and our favorite banking resources: clevergirlfinance.com/course-packages ❤ Read the Clever Girl Finance Blog: clevergirlfinance.com/blog ❤ Follow us on Instagram: @clevergirlfinance