The Avoidant Attachment: Why Independence Feels Safer Than Love 🧱💔
What if the walls you built to protect yourself are the very thing keeping you lonely?In this episode of The Awakened Soul, host Haize breaks down the avoidant attachment style—a deeply misunderstood pattern rooted in emotional neglect, survival, and learned independence. Avoidant individuals often appear strong, self-reliant, and emotionally detached—but beneath that exterior is a desire for connection paired with a fear of losing oneself.We explore:Why avoidant people struggle with intimacy and trustHow childhood emotional neglect shapes adult relationshipsWhy avoidants withdraw when things get “too close”How partners experience emotional distance and shutdownsMost importantly, we shift from awareness to healing using the B.L.U.E. Method:Build healthier emotional habitsListen beyond your emotional triggersUnlearn survival patterns that no longer serve youEmbrace vulnerability instead of running from itIf you’ve ever been told you’re “too distant,” “emotionally unavailable,” or if closeness feels overwhelming—this episode is for you.Healing starts with awareness. Growth begins with courage. 💙Get at us:Email: TheAwakenedSoulPod@gmail.comFacebook: The Awakened SoulInstagram: @TheAwakenedSoulPodTwitter: @AwakenedSoulPodPhone: (614)-547-2039Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-awakened-soul-podcast6887/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Stop Letting People Have You F**ked Up
Haize talks about why it's time to stop letting people have you f**ked upGet at us:Email: TheAwakenedSoulPod@gmail.comFacebook: The Awakened SoulInstagram: @TheAwakenedSoulPodTwitter: @AwakenedSoulPodPhone: (614)-547-2039Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-awakened-soul-podcast6887/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
The Pain Of Loss
Haize talks about how he used the pain of loss to rediscover and define his focus.Get at us:Email: TheAwakenedSoulPod@gmail.comFacebook: The Awakened SoulInstagram: @TheAwakenedSoulPodTwitter: @AwakenedSoulPodPhone: (614)-547-2039Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-awakened-soul-podcast6887/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Don't Call It A Comeback
Haize returns talking about his life and journey and how it's made him a better man, father, partner, and creative. This is a fresh start for the podcast and Haize welcomes the listener on the journey. Get at us:Email: TheAwakenedSoulPod@gmail.comFacebook: The Awakened SoulInstagram: @TheAwakenedSoulPodTwitter: @AwakenedSoulPodPhone: (614)-547-2039Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-awakened-soul-podcast6887/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
S.L.U.T. Me Out
Haize welcomes guest Dstany from Hoeology podcats for a fun discussion about submission, black culture embracing kink, & being sex positive. Haize also talks about the upcoming Martin re-union special, Texas A&M University coach Sydney Carter, Kayne West & much more.Topics:Intro (00:41)In The Mind Of Haize: Sydney Carter, Martin Re-Union & Kaybe West & JP Morgan Chase Racism Lawsuit.(2:15)S.L.U.T. Me Out feat. Ds'Tany (15:05)Get at us:Email: TheAwakenedSoulPod@gmail.comFacebook: The Awakened SoulInstagram: @TheAwakenedSoulPodTwitter: @AwakenedSoulPodPhone: (614)-547-2039Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-awakened-soul-podcast6887/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy