Decide Your Legacy

185. How to Play the Long Game

Ready to turn setbacks into your secret weapon? In Episode 185 of the DYL Podcast, Adam Gragg invites you to master "The Long Game" and discover why leaders, and anyone hungry for growth, must think beyond today. From NFL game-day blunders to personal battles with failure, Adam Gragg shows how grit, vulnerability, and vision fuel true success.Get real about your fears, gather lessons from every stumble, and create a bounce-back plan that keeps you moving forward. Whether you’re a parent dreaming big for your kids or an entrepreneur navigating setbacks, these insights will inspire you to play, and WIN, the long game.Tune in now to laugh, learn, and light up your legacy. This episode isn’t just hope, it’s your playbook for lasting impact. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and get ready to lead with courage!►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads►►WATCH THIS EPISODE FOR TIPS ON JOURNALINGhttps://youtu.be/QwJ5LFQ9GhECHAPTERS:00:00 Resilience After Failure05:26 "Parenting: Embrace the Long Game"09:22 "Growth Through Fear and Lessons"10:20 "Embrace Imperfection, Learn, Grow"15:23 "Brian's First Year in Business"17:30 "Letter from Daughter's Heart"20:51 "Take Action and Share" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

184. 3 Key Decisions to Successfully Navigate Hard Conversations

Step into the arena of tough talks with Episode 184 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Troy Trussell as they crack the code on "Hard Conversations." Are you tired of walking on eggshells, dodging confrontations, or letting fear keep you silent? Discover the game-changing power of courage over comfort!In this episode, you’ll learn the three decisive moves you need to finally stop avoiding those difficult discussions—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. Uncover why we procrastinate, how planning to listen (not just to talk!) can transform your relationships, and why commitment is the secret sauce to real change. Packed with practical examples, personal stories, and actionable strategies, this episode is your blueprint for turning anxiety into productive action.Most of us know there's a hard conversation we should have, but we keep putting it off. This video addresses the common tendency of conflict avoidance in relationships, whether with coworkers, family, or friends. Learn valuable strategies for navigating difficult conversations, fostering better communication, and enhancing your emotional intelligence for stronger connections.Ready to punch fear in the face and create meaningful change? Listen now and let the DYL Podcast help you tackle the conversations you’ve been putting off. Your legacy starts with one brave step, don’t miss out!►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE CHAPTERS:00:00 "Keys to Successful Hard Conversations"05:34 "Dreaming of Family Legacy"08:04 Avoiding Difficult Conversations09:44 Avoiding Discomfort and Its Costs14:22 "Facing Difficult Conversations"17:12 "Listening Over Agenda"22:02 "Parenting and Tough Conversations"24:55 "Commit to Hard Conversations"29:10 "Leveraging Growth for Success"31:28 "Schedule, Commit, and Act"35:55 "Overcoming Avoidance Through Action"36:56 "Decide, Act, and Grow" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

183. 3 Tips for Dealing with Holiday Tension

Feeling overwhelmed by holiday chaos? Press play on Episode 183 of the DYL Podcast and let stress melt away! Join host Adam Gragg with guest Troy Trussell as they swap real stories, unfiltered advice, and a few laughs about surviving, and thriving, during family gatherings.Discover three game-changing tips for tackling tension, setting healthy boundaries, and finding gratitude (even when your sister has an epic Dutch Bros coffee meltdown!). Learn how to switch from “problem mode” to an opportunity mindset, focus on what you can control, and level up your self-care, all while keeping your cool in the lion’s den of holiday drama.With vulnerable moments, relatable family tales, and practical insights, this episode is your go-to guide for turning dreaded get-togethers into moments of connection and growth. Tune in and unlock the secret to a stress-proof, joy-filled season.Don’t let drama hijack your holidays—listen now and decide your legacy!RESOURCES:Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini CourseShatterproof Yourself helps you break free from anxiety, build lasting confidence, and overcome the fears that hold you back. This video offers powerful insights into using "self reflection" to assess your actions and foster "personal growth". By asking yourself what advice you'd give to others, you cultivate "self awareness" and a stronger "mindset", leading to valuable "life lessons". This simple yet profound exercise in "asking for advice" ensures "positive thinking" and consistency in your principles.3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader7 Benefits of Being Courageous4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation TendencyHow to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life ChoicesCHAPTERS:00:00 "Advice You'd Give Yourself"04:10 "Embracing Positive Family Time"08:24 "Serenity Prayer in Action"12:19 Resolving Conflict Through Communication14:07 "Self-Care and Support Strategies"16:27 "Holiday Tools for Stress Relief"Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy nobody else.#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

182. Connecting with People

Unlock the magic of meaningful conversation with Episode 182 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the art of Connecting With People—just in time for holidays, work parties, and real-life interactions that matter.Discover three powerful tools to spark instant connection, even in the most challenging relationships. Learn how courageous conversations, sincere apologies, and adding genuine value can transform your friendships, family dynamics, and professional circles.Feeling anxious about that upcoming get-together? Adam Gragg shares his personal blueprint for overcoming discomfort and building bridges, even when conflict rears its head. Plus, get his four must-ask questions guaranteed to break the ice and deepen relationships at any gathering.Ready to turn awkward small talk into memorable moments? Don’t miss this episode—connection starts with you, and the ripple effect is life-changing.Tune in now and start creating the legacy you want to be remembered for!RESOURCES:Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini CourseCHAPTERS:00:00 "Connecting Through Holiday Interactions"05:49 Healthy Relationships Require Humility08:21 "Intentional Connection Over Avoidance"12:36 "Near-Death Experiences and Childhood Memories"13:28 Openness Leads to Healthier Connections Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

181. How to Ask Yourself Great Questions

Unlock the secret to life-changing self-discovery in the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg in Episode 181 as he reveals the three powerful questions that can ignite your mindset, supercharge your confidence, and shatter the harmful beliefs holding you back.Ready to rewrite your story? Adam Gragg will teach you how to ask yourself the questions that the brain simply can’t ignore. This will begin opening doors to personal clarity, bold vision, and deep-rooted self-truth. Whether you’re craving better relationships, unstoppable confidence, or freedom from self-doubt, this episode will give you the tools to step into your most courageous self.Don’t just listen—take action! Tune in now and discover how one small question can spark your greatest transformation. Your legacy starts today!The human brain responds uniquely to questions. Discover how effective "self questioning" can lead to significant "mindset shifts" and foster incredible "personal growth". This video offers practical "life advice" for "self improvement" by using your brain's natural tendencies.RESOURCES:Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Coursehttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/CHAPTERS:00:00 "Leadership Through Reflection & Gratitude"04:21 "Imagining Unlimited Self-Confidence"07:26 "Defining Actions for Progress"11:47 "Transform Through Truth and Action"Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy—nobody else.#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!