Share The Struggle

We Grow When We Stop Chasing Things And Start Training Our Thoughts

What if the real upgrade this year isn’t a new purchase, but a new pattern of thinking? We open the door to a raw, relatable conversation about why we obsess over stuff, set punishing deadlines, and then watch our motivation fade while anxiety grows. From a scratched-CD glitch to a stack of old vinyl and a French bulldog cameo, the setup is light—but the message lands heavy: we’ve been valuing things over thoughts, and it’s costing us peace, progress, and purpose.I get personal about the trophies I once chased: the truck I worshiped that now rusts under a pine, the Challenger I babied that sits unregistered in the snow, the Harley that became garage decor. Each win felt like a finish line before it turned into clutter. The throughline wasn’t the gear; it was the inner voice I let run wild with comparison, doubt, and deadlines. We pull apart how rumination spins up from tiny sparks—a “K” text, a lagging reply—and becomes a story that strains relationships and stalls action, all without a single new fact.A vivid dream flips the script. In it, a refinance wipes out debt and the body responds first—deep breath, shoulders light, real relief. Waking up doesn’t erase the bills, but it rewires the target: stop giving power to the problem and start giving power to possibility. That shift fuels a practical framework you can use today: label intrusive thoughts as mental events, separate you from you with a firm “not today,” move your body to break the loop and then take one step toward your goal, and control only what you can—especially not other people’s opinions.We close with a challenge for 2026: keep the goals, ditch the self-imposed choke points, and talk to yourself like someone whose future matters. Your expectations are your responsibility, and your mindset is the leverage that makes hard things possible. If you’re ready to feel lighter without buying a thing, press play, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. What thought are you upgrading today?If you found value in today's show please return the favor and leave a positive review and share it with someone important to you! https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/reviews/new/Find all you need to know about the show https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/Official Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077724159859Join the 2% of Americans that Buy American and support American Together we can bring back American Manufacturing https://www.loudproudamerican.shop/Loud Proud American Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoudproudamericanLoud Proud American Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loud_proud_american/Loud Proud American TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loud_proud_americanLoud Proud American YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYQtOt6KVURuySWYQ2GWtwThank you for Supporting My American Dream!

Patriotism As A Resolution

New Year, new kind of resolution: what if choosing patriotism—real, responsible, everyday patriotism—could lower the temperature, raise our standards, and bring some pride back into the room? We kick off 2026 by breaking down a high-stakes operation and the bigger story it tells about competence, courage, and common ground.We walk through Operation Absolute Resolve with a focus on what made it extraordinary: months of joint planning, precise timing, interagency coordination, and more than 150 aircraft converging to execute a complex nighttime apprehension. You’ll hear how discipline, integration, and tactical surprise translate into fewer risks and bigger gains, and why those details matter beyond headlines. Then we look at the split-screen reaction—gratitude in Venezuelan communities and anger in parts of the U.S.—to ask a tough question: are we evaluating results, or just reacting to who delivered them?From media narratives to personal bias, we examine how outrage can crowd out context and how that distortion weakens civic trust. Instead of treating patriotism as blind loyalty, we frame it as devotion with responsibility: supporting core values, serving our neighbors, staying informed, voting, and celebrating legitimate wins without switching off critical thinking. We connect the mission’s impact to public safety and the long-promised war on drugs, making the case that acknowledging success is not partisanship—it’s stewardship.If you’re ready for a year defined by clarity, gratitude, and action, this one’s for you. Hit play, then share one concrete way you’ll practice patriotism this week. Subscribe, leave a review to help others find the show, and pass this episode to someone who could use a little more pride and a little less noise.If you found value in today's show please return the favor and leave a positive review and share it with someone important to you! https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/reviews/new/Find all you need to know about the show https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/Official Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077724159859Join the 2% of Americans that Buy American and support American Together we can bring back American Manufacturing https://www.loudproudamerican.shop/Loud Proud American Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoudproudamericanLoud Proud American Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loud_proud_american/Loud Proud American TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loud_proud_americanLoud Proud American YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYQtOt6KVURuySWYQ2GWtwThank you for Supporting My American Dream!

You Are Not Your Conditions, And Today You Decide What Stays And What Goes

Midnight won’t fix your life, but a decision might. We’re closing the year by doing the uncomfortable work most people avoid: naming what we will leave behind so we can walk lighter, clearer, and truer. Instead of stacking new goals on old baggage, we cut off the dead weight—labels we accepted, habits that stole our time, and stories that made our struggles feel like our names.I share the line that stopped me in my tracks: sometimes you go through something so long you forget who you are. That idea reframed the whole year. We talk about the difference between trying and deciding, how language opens or closes escape hatches, and why conditions are not identity. If you’ve said “I’m trying to quit,” you’ll hear how “I quit” changes your posture, your calendar, and your outcomes. We get practical about replacing doom scrolling, breaking negative self-talk with pattern interrupts, and building momentum through small, daily wins that compound into confidence.This conversation also leans on faith, community, and proof from your own life. You’re not walking into 2026 empty handed—you’re walking in with your track record, your grit, and your God-given strengths. We unpack tools to guard your inputs with a digital detox, curate voices that lift your standards, and practice self-compassion that you’d actually offer a friend. I reflect on six years of building Loud Proud American, the trap of dwelling and swelling, and the choice to stop letting struggle define the day.If you’re ready to trade resolutions for release, and goals for grounded action, this is your reset. Subscribe, share with someone who needs a lift, and leave a review so more people can find the show. Then tell me: what are you leaving behind—and what are you bringing with you?Here is a Link to Pastor Steven Furtick Elevation Church this sparked todays thoughts and discussion please follow if you are inspired https://youtu.be/UBB97n_M14M?si=XOavtZ19HD3eFMMK If you found value in today's show please return the favor and leave a positive review and share it with someone important to you! https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/reviews/new/Find all you need to know about the show https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/Official Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077724159859Join the 2% of Americans that Buy American and support American Together we can bring back American Manufacturing https://www.loudproudamerican.shop/Loud Proud American Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoudproudamericanLoud Proud American Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loud_proud_american/Loud Proud American TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loud_proud_americanLoud Proud American YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYQtOt6KVURuySWYQ2GWtwThank you for Supporting My American Dream!

Turn Holiday Hustle Into Memories

Snow outside, lights low, coffee at night, and a toddler determined to cameo—this Christmas special is equal parts cozy and chaotic. We leaned into it. From goofy elf names to heartfelt family memories, we explore how the holidays feel when traditions shift and real life spills across the wrapping paper.We start with humor—Minty McCandy Cane, Happy Stocking Stuffer, and the legend of Jingle Pickle Pants—then move into the scents and stories that anchor the season: pine on the dashboard, a battery four-wheeler sending a kid up the Christmas tree, and a giant stocking that turned generosity into sport. Along the way we talk honestly about what happens when grandparents are gone and the old scripts fade. If the big gatherings have dwindled, how do you rebuild? Our answer: make smaller rituals that still feel big. Walk through a mile of lights. Stretch celebrations across days, not hours. Keep stockings, but fill them smart.We also share the case for practical presents—deodorant, gloves, toothpaste, a renewed registration, even a AAA membership. Not glamorous, but deeply kind when money is tight and January is coming. And then there’s Spirit, the horse that became family—a story of late-night deals, a perfect card, and a room full of tears that still feels like a warm fire. That’s the energy we carry forward: not bigger, but deeper. Make memories that last longer than the bow.If you’re craving a holiday that’s warm, real, and a little messy, you’re in the right place. Laugh with us, reminisce with us, and take away ideas you can use tonight. Subscribe, share this with someone who loves a good Christmas story, and leave a review with your most practical gift that meant the most—we’ll read our favorites next time.If you found value in today's show please return the favor and leave a positive review and share it with someone important to you! https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/reviews/new/Find all you need to know about the show https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/Official Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077724159859Join the 2% of Americans that Buy American and support American Together we can bring back American Manufacturing https://www.loudproudamerican.shop/Loud Proud American Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoudproudamericanLoud Proud American Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loud_proud_american/Loud Proud American TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loud_proud_americanLoud Proud American YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYQtOt6KVURuySWYQ2GWtwThank you for Supporting My American Dream!

Reflecting And Reclaiming The Season

Time moves quietly, until you realize 2016 is somehow a decade behind you. We lean into that jolt and turn it into a practical tool to calm holiday anxiety: look back ten years, then name the next ten with intention. Along the way, we get honest about the economy’s squeeze, the pressure to be merry, and how reflection can ground you when everything feels loud.We map a real decade—marriage, a home built on family land, a dream job gained and lost, a business born, and the grief that still wakes you at night. That full arc matters. It shows the strength you’ve built, the risks you took, and the love that held you together. With that clarity, we sketch 2036 in real terms. How old will you and your kids be? What will your days feel like? What single action can you take now—send the message, take the trip, start the scary thing—to bend time toward meaning rather than drift?We also reclaim the season with a simple family pact: create nightly moments that become memories—cookies, lights, photos, hand-written notes. These small rituals outlast stress and give kids wonder they’ll carry forward. And we model another kind of courage: seeking peace through transparency. When rumors and accusations rage, choose a long, honest conversation over performative outrage. In public life or at your own table, clarity builds trust and softens the ground for healing.If you’re feeling the weight of the holidays, grab a pen. Write your ten-year list, picture your next decade, and choose one action today. Then share this episode with someone who needs hope. Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: what’s the one memory you’ll create this week?If you found value in today's show please return the favor and leave a positive review and share it with someone important to you! https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/reviews/new/Find all you need to know about the show https://www.sharethestrugglepodcast.com/Official Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100077724159859Join the 2% of Americans that Buy American and support American Together we can bring back American Manufacturing https://www.loudproudamerican.shop/Loud Proud American Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoudproudamericanLoud Proud American Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loud_proud_american/Loud Proud American TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loud_proud_americanLoud Proud American YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmYQtOt6KVURuySWYQ2GWtwThank you for Supporting My American Dream!