The Take It Deep Show

THE BATTLE OF THE BULGE: Three Guys And Three Jersey Women Try To Fix Modern Dating While The Studio Falls Apart

Send us your thoughts and possible requests for show topics. SUBSCRIBE TO OUR SHOWWhat happens when three opinionated hosts invite three Jersey women to dissect modern dating with zero filters and a lot of receipts? Sparks fly, rules get rewritten, and the truth about apps, scams, red flags, and real chemistry spills out in full color. We set the tone with tech chaos and holiday snark, then dive into the meat of it: why Hinge roses and premium paywalls turn connection into microtransactions, how filters and height inflation erode trust, and why chatting for weeks only breeds projections. The women’s stories are brutally relatable—scammers with overseas “bank lockouts,” rent-ask bots, and first dates that fizzle after two Foreigner songs—while the guys admit the male versions of self-sabotage, hedging, and performance-mode dating.We push for a saner playbook: meet faster, keep the first date short and public, and cut your chat queue to two or three to lower the noise. Single parents get real about time: kid ages, custody rhythms, and mom guilt can derail momentum even when the spark is real. The crew doesn’t shame meds or history; they call for honesty. If there’s an antipsychotic on the list and you’re hiding it, that’s different from being transparent about everyday treatment and showing stability. We laugh about museum marathons, karaoke misses, and the worst selfie angles on Earth, but the takeaways stay sharp: use current photos, drop the filters, and write profiles that sound like your actual life. Offer a clear plan, respect boundaries, and notice who shows up like they text.By the end, we land on a hopeful note that isn’t naive. Apps are tools, not casinos. You can set a tighter radius, meet sooner, protect your drink and your time, and still stay open enough to let something real start. If you’ve felt burned out, this conversation will leave you with practical steps, better filters for red flags, and a reminder that a good laugh can reset your dating mindset. If you enjoyed the ride, follow the show, share this episode with a friend who’s swiping, and leave a quick review—it helps more listeners find us and keeps the good conversations coming. https://www.thetakeitdeepshow.com

Dating in Your 40s: Less Terrifying Than a 12-Mile Wide Space Object

Send us your thoughts and possible requests for show topics. What happens when cosmic threats and dating disasters collide? This week, Matt and Pat dive into the strange world of mysterious space objects and the equally perplexing landscape of modern dating apps.The conversation kicks off with news of a 12-mile wide object hurtling toward Earth at light speed that has scientists puzzled after it mysteriously changed direction. Is it a comet, an alien spacecraft, or something else entirely? Adding to the cosmic intrigue, the hosts discuss a recently discovered radio signal from deep space that repeats at regular intervals every 22 minutes. Whether you're a believer in extraterrestrial life or a skeptic, the timing of these discoveries has the guys wondering if we're being prepared for first contact.From outer space to personal space, Pat shares his adventures in the dating app universe as a newly single man in his 40s. His successful connection with Phyllis, a Turkish pharmacy owner with a captivating accent, stands in stark contrast to horror stories of matches who ghost after promising conversations and dates who can barely string together responses beyond "okay." The hosts break down the economics of dating apps, revealing the surprisingly high costs of premium features and the psychological tactics used to keep users swiping and paying.Throughout their candid conversation, Matt and Pat offer practical advice for dating app users – stop with the excessive filters, be honest about who you are, and for heaven's sake, learn to carry a conversation. Whether you're worried about cosmic invasions or just trying to navigate the treacherous waters of modern romance, this episode delivers equal parts humor, insight, and the occasional profanity-laden truth bomb that might just save your love life before the aliens arrive. https://www.thetakeitdeepshow.com

When Friends Turn Feral: A Night of Bourbon and Bizarre Behavior

Send us your thoughts and possible requests for show topics. When Kevin arrives at the studio sporting a golf ball-sized hematoma around his eye and displaying wildly swinging moods, what begins as concern quickly devolves into the most chaotic episode we've ever recorded. Behind the laughter lies genuine worry as we subject him to our makeshift "concussion protocol"—a series of increasingly ridiculous questions that reveal more about our friendship dynamics than his neurological state.The conversation takes an unexpectedly philosophical turn when we explore the concept of controlled rage as a survival mechanism. Who among us would be most valuable during societal collapse? Is there something to be said for having that friend who can tap into protective fury when needed? We share personal stories about moments when that simmering anger proved useful, particularly in defending loved ones.Things get surprisingly deep as we dissect recent rumors of potential terrorist threats, workplace drama involving a one-eyed coworker nicknamed "One-Eyed Willie," and the challenges of supporting partners through serious illness. These seemingly disparate topics weave together to form a tapestry of how we process anxiety, protection instincts, and loyalty through our unique brand of inappropriate humor.The episode culminates with our newest creation: Gas Station Food Roulette. This questionable game forces us to sample convenience store cuisine of dubious origin and even more dubious taste. Between bites of a muffin with "the consistency of concrete" and a sandwich containing mystery meat that "might have been made in a government lab," we discover new depths of friendship—the kind where you're willing to risk food poisoning for entertainment value.What makes this episode special isn't just the unhinged energy or bizarre tangents, but the genuine glimpse into how close friends navigate concern, care, and chaos through laughter. Call us at 845-842-1652 to share your own stories of friendship in its rawest, most unfiltered form. https://www.thetakeitdeepshow.com

Fire Pokers and Dirt Bikes: Your Apocalypse Essentials

Send us your thoughts and possible requests for show topics. Dive into the shadowy world of geopolitical mysteries as we uncover what might be behind the recent drone sightings across America. Our sources reveal a stunning possibility: these drones could be Chinese technology launched by Iran, searching for a missing Russian nuclear submarine that disappeared roughly 18 months ago. Even former President Trump has hinted that officials know more than they're sharing with the public.The conversation takes a sobering turn as we explore our society's vulnerability to catastrophic events like EMP attacks. What happens when the power grid fails not once, but twice in succession? We break down the strategic reality of how adversaries might maximize chaos by timing attacks to hit after backup systems are activated. Are you prepared for such a scenario? Our discussion of essential apocalypse items ranges from the practical (water filtration systems and firearms) to the unexpected (the humble fire poker as a multi-purpose survival tool).Environmental concerns take center stage as we examine the devastating California wildfires through a critical lens. Could water mismanagement be contributing to these disasters? We discuss troubling allegations that water resources are being diverted to agricultural interests rather than firefighting efforts. Meanwhile, the threats lurking in our everyday products – microplastics and xenoestrogens – might be silently altering human biology in ways we're only beginning to understand.In a world where distinguishing truth from manipulation becomes increasingly difficult, join us as we question official narratives and search for clarity. Whether you're concerned about national security, personal preparedness, or the environmental challenges facing our planet, this episode offers thought-provoking perspectives that will leave you seeing current events in an entirely new light. https://www.thetakeitdeepshow.com

Bug Out or Die Trying: A Not-So-Serious Guide to Apocalypse Prep

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