Ask Ashley: The Podcast

Why Can't I Hear God? Feat Dinorah Peña

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with entrepreneur and ministry leader Dinorah Peña, founder of Seed, Sow, Harvest — a growing community born from an unexpected calling that led her from talent management into women’s ministry.What unfolds is a deeply honest conversation about obedience, identity, spiritual awakening, and what it really looks like to experience God for yourself.00:30 - Starting the episode with a prayer? YES please!Dinorah sets the intention for a conversation rooted in faith, purpose, and impact from the very beginning.03:33 - Making IdolsWhat happens when the very thing you prayed for quietly becomes the thing pulling you away from God? Dinorah gets incredibly real about the season that brought her to her knees and the uncomfortable realization that her business, her title, and even her productivity had started taking up too much space in her life.25:10 - Seed, Sow, HarvestAfter hundreds of women showed up to a virtual Bible study, it became clear this wasn’t just a moment… it was a calling. Whether you’re deeply rooted in your faith, newly curious, or still figuring it all out, there is room for you at Seed Sow Harvest. The beautiful reality? This space isn’t just for the “church girls.” It’s for everyone.31:36 - Knowing God vs. Experiencing GodThe ladies play a clip that hits a nerve: there’s a difference between knowing about God and actually experiencing Him. Ashley W shares the moment her faith became personal in a hospital waiting room. Dinorah opens up about a childhood encounter that still gives her chills. But it’s Ashley N who sparks a conversation so many people quietly wrestle with: what if you believe, you pray, you try… but still feel like you don’t hear God the way others say they do?1:06:44 - Church Homes & Songs That Carry YouQuestion Time gets personal when the conversation turns to something many believers struggle with: why is it so hard to find a church home after you move?Ashley, Ashley + Dinorah talk being “digital disciples,” outgrowing certain spaces, craving teaching that truly feeds you, and the worship songs that have carried them through different seasons — the ones that instantly bring them back to God’s presence.Connect with Dinorah Peña:Website: https://seedsowharvest.comInstagram: @seedsowharvestInstagram: @dinorahpenaSupport the show🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you! ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

Still Pink in the Middle

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week diving into mental flexibility, emotional triggers, attachment styles, and why sometimes five minutes can change everything. It’s not all laughs, but it is a necessary self-check.00:25 — Majoring vs. Minoring: Life Check-InWhat are you majoring in right now, and what’s just a minor? The Ashley’s introduce a new way to measure how life is really going, and the conversation quickly turns surprisingly introspective.10:54 — The Power of the Pause + Attachment Style Deep DiveSometimes emotional restraint, and a little silence, can be your strongest response. Ashley + Ashley unpack “the power of the pause,” controlling reactions instead of crashing out, and what happens when you finally stop overexplaining.19:06 — Type A vs. Type B: Which One Are You, Really?The Ashley’s question everything they thought they knew about their personalities. Are they truly Type A, or secretly Type B? From losing debit cards and ignoring low phone batteries to dishwasher etiquette, the girls unpack the habits that reveal how we’re really wired.29:12 — Technology That Needs to Go Back in the OvenRaise your hand if you’ve felt personally victimized by a printer. Printers never work when you need them to, but you know what might be worse? Bluetooth. The Ashley’s bond over everyday tech that feels half baked. If it only works half the time, put it back in the oven.36:06 — It’s TV Time: Are Old Shows Better Than New Ones?Ashley N is deep in her nostalgic TV era. From Homeland vs. House of Cards to Felicity, Dawson’s Creek, and The Americans, she makes a strong case for why the classics might still be undefeated.39:50 — Question Time: Happiness, Faith & The Legacy We Leave BehindInspired by Angie Martinez’s signature questions, the Ashley’s rate their happiness, share what message they believe God would text them right now, and explore what legacy truly means.Support the show🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you! ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

True Crime Tips

This week on Ask Ashley, the girls are back with a PSA you didn’t ask for but absolutely need: how to stay alive, according to every Dateline intro ever. 😭 From “don’t light up a room” to “don’t go jogging on a day like any other day,” Ashley & Ashley spiral into a full true-crime rulebook… then somehow end up talking about real-world safety tips, sex trafficking signs, and why you should absolutely drive off with your windshield wipers still up if something feels off.Then the ladies switch gears into parenting realities: when your kid is on varsity as a freshman, games are hours away, and you’re trying to figure out if skipping a 3-hour drive makes you a bad mom… or just a mom with responsibilities and a bedtime routine.PLUS: Things I Saw on the Internet gives us a married man with audacity, a woman who sent screenshots straight to the wife, and a deep dive into why the internet trying to normalize “proud side chick” content is truly the darkest timeline. Question Time, including rich relatives, cereal rankings, freedom debates, and the classic: do you do what you love for less money… or what you hate for the bag?Support the show🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you! ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

We Played Life. They Play Roblox.

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week discussing winter on the West Coast, old pains that probably need some attention, and the chaos that unfolds when convenience goes too far.01:08 - Wild Replacements & Delivery App Chaos A DoorDash interruption turns into a full breakdown of the audacity of modern delivery apps. From kids and girlfriends riding along to replacements that make absolutely zero sense, Ashley + Ashley spiral over their worst Instacart, Uber Eats, and DoorDash experiences.18:36 - Things I Saw on the Internet: The Oregon Trail Generation Let’s be real, millennials don’t panic because we’ve already survived everything. Pandemics, epidemics, loss, and pure chaos… all before middle school. The Ashleys unpack how childhood games like The Oregon Trail, The Game of Life, Monopoly, Sorry, and Operation were basically a crash course in adulthood. Millennials played life. Kids nowadays play Roblox. And it shows.23:49 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Male Perspective Therapy You know how men give relationship advice? Blunt. Harsh. And somehow… exactly Ashley N’s speed. The Ashleys unpack why feedback from platonic male friends can hit differently than hearing the same advice from your girlfriends. Plus, why women often benefit more from male friendships than men do from female ones. Cue the double standards. LOL.34:58 - It’s Question Time! The Ashleys get into meals that impress, the most attractive trait in a man, breakup cleanup habits, and a very clear stance on threesomes.Support the show🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you! ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.

Honest Mom Internet

Ashley + Ashley are back in the studio this week with a proper pour of Kim Crawford, struggling through French words nobody actually knows how to pronounce, and realizing confidence really will take you far.00:00 - Welcome Back to Ask Ashley05:25 - Overthinking the PositiveAshley W is deep in her choose joy era. It’s all about the power of words, rewiring your brain toward positivity, and why overthinking the positive is just as valid as overthinking the negative. Things take an emotional turn after a moment with Ashley’s mom leaves the girls with unexpected tears, a reminder that a sweet moment mixed with Kim Crawford will do it every time.15:28 - When the Internet Goes Out and So Does Your Sense of SafetyThe internet went out for over 24 hours at Ashley N’s house. No Netflix, no Ring cameras, no alarm system, no cell service. It led to the very real realization that modern safety and sanity are dangerously tied to the internet.20:14 - Things I Saw on the Internet: Honest Mom InternetOne time for the unhinged but deeply validating corner of the internet where moms are finally telling the truth. From chaotic mornings and zero patience to breastfeeding pressure, pregnancy grief, and IVF realities. The pretending motherhood is aesthetic has officially expired. Shoutout to honest mom creators.29:50 - It’s TV Time! From Love Island Australia to Real HousewivesAshley W makes a brief attempt to bring Ashley N back into Love Island, but with an uncommitted bestie, she quickly pivots to the big dogs. Enter Real Housewives of Potomac. Karen in jail, Wendy & Happy Eddie catching fraud charges, mid-season mugshots, insurance scams, aliases, and why Potomac might be the most perfectly timed Housewives season we’ve seen in years. Reality TV is back doing what it does best: documenting the downfall in real time.41:50 - DYQ Meme of the Week: Let’s Skip the Talking StageIn the era of getting flewed out, women are hopping on planes and trusting internet strangers at alarming rates. But was it really any better back in the day? The Ashleys swap their riskiest “just go” stories: fake IDs, random men, public bus rides to the club, and almost flying into an active war zone. The conclusion? Risky behavior used to feel normal. Now it just feels unnecessary. Make them work for you, ladies.48:50 - It’s Question Time!Ashley + Ashley discuss morality amongst friends, favorite scents, loyalty, top-notch aura, and celebrity delusion.Support the show🔥 Don’t miss a moment—subscribe to Ask Ashley: The Podcast on your favorite podcast platform! New episodes drop every week, so hit that subscribe button and stay caught up. You can become one of our besties by subscribing to our BONUS EPISODES where you'll get bonus content, behind-the-scenes, and all the laughs. 📲 Stay connected! Follow us on Instagram @askashleypodcast and subscribe on YouTube: Ask Ashley: The Podcast Let’s keep the conversation going! Comment, share, and tag us in your favorite moments. We love hearing from you! ©DearYoungQueen . All Rights Reserved.