Get Real With Dakota

Ep38: Divorce and Non Monogamy: A Complex Relationship with Dirty Lola

In this episode of 'Get Real with Dakota', Dakota Ramppen and Dirty Lola delve into the complexities of love, sex, and relationships, particularly focusing on the themes of divorce and non-monogamy. They share personal experiences and insights on navigating emotional connections, the importance of communication, and the challenges of polyamory. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness, creating personalized relationship standards, and the significance of pleasure during difficult times.Support Dirty Lola's work by visiting her Instagram @dirtylola and her website.Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode to spread the tough love and real talk. 🔥 Ready to stop second-guessing yourself in relationships? 🔥👀 Get daily insights & real talk on IG → @getrealwithdakota📚 Explore my workshops & resources → getrealwithdakota.com🤔 Still wondering Is it Anxiety or Intuition? Get my free guide here!

Ep37: "This is not a break. This is a breakup."

In this episode, Dakota and her ex-partner delve into the complexities of their relationship, exploring themes of emotional exhaustion, communication breakdowns, and the challenges of navigating boundaries and expectations. They reflect on their experiences with non-monogamy, the impact of past relationships, and the importance of intimacy and connection. Throughout the discussion, they emphasize the need for self-discovery and personal growth as they confront the realities of their breakup and consider future possibilities.Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode to spread the tough love and real talk. 🔥 Ready to stop second-guessing yourself in relationships? 🔥👀 Get daily insights & real talk on IG → @getrealwithdakota📚 Explore my workshops & resources → getrealwithdakota.com🤔 Still wondering Is it Anxiety or Intuition? Get my free guide here!

Ep36: Lessons From a (Pending) Divorce

In this episode, Dakota shares a personal update on her journey through divorce and the complexities of navigating relationships. She reflects on her past experiences with monogamy and non-monogamy, the challenges of embracing a healthy relationship, and the emotional baggage that comes with it. Dakota emphasizes the importance of understanding compatibility in relationships, the lessons learned from her past, and the need for healing and self-acceptance. She encourages listeners to confront their emotional struggles and seek support in their journey towards personal growth and fulfillment. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode to spread the tough love and real talk. For more resources, workshops, and coaching, visit ⁠⁠⁠www.getrealwithdakota.com.⁠⁠⁠ Keep it real, stay true to yourself, and remember: your pleasure and boundaries are worth fighting for!

Ep35: Conscious Monogamy: Insights from Two Love Journeys

In this episode of Get Real with Dakota, Dakota and Mx. Sizzle dive into the intricate world of relationship dynamics, sharing candid reflections on their personal journeys. From navigating the challenges of polyamory to embracing conscious monogamy, they discuss the transition between these relationship models, offering deep insights into trust, jealousy, and the importance of understanding individual needs versus wants. Mx. Sizzle opens up about their recent divorce and current monogamous relationship, while Dakota shares their evolution through toxic monogamous and polyamorous experiences. Together, they explore the power of communication, the significance of different types of intimacy, and how to build fulfilling relationships by prioritizing authenticity and alignment. This conversation isn’t anti-polyamory—instead, it highlights the value of conscious relationship-building, no matter the structure. Tune in for real talk, transformative insights, and a fresh perspective on navigating love and connection. Stay up to date on Mx.Sizzle's work and adventures on their Instagram. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode to spread the tough love and real talk. For more resources, workshops, and coaching, visit ⁠⁠⁠www.getrealwithdakota.com.⁠⁠⁠  Keep it real, stay true to yourself, and remember: your pleasure and boundaries are worth fighting for!

Ep34: "So Divorce Sucks" with Birdie

In this episode of 'Get Real with Dakota', Dakota and Birdie, the 420 Sexologist, delve into the complexities of divorce, sharing their personal experiences and insights. They discuss the emotional and financial implications of divorce, the impact on family dynamics, and the lessons learned throughout the process. The conversation also explores alternative relationship models and the importance of understanding one's needs in relationships. They discuss the complexities of relationship dynamics, particularly focusing on monogamy and non-monogamy. Dakota shares personal experiences of navigating relationship anxiety, trust issues, and the impact of new relationship energy. They highlight the need for conscious decision-making in relationships and the significance of understanding one's own needs and boundaries. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of recognizing value misalignments and the necessity of choosing oneself in the face of societal expectations. Tune in to this episode for a deep and real conversations. Stay up to date on Birdie's work and adventures on her Instagram. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode to spread the tough love and real talk. For more resources, workshops, and coaching, visit ⁠⁠⁠www.getrealwithdakota.com.⁠⁠⁠ Keep it real, stay true to yourself, and remember: your pleasure and boundaries are worth fighting for!