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Tactics and Tricks to Game the Dating Apps with Dr. Jennie Young

Hey girl,In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jennie Young, professor of rhetoric and author of Burn the Haystack, for a conversation that is going to completely change the way you think about dating apps and the men on them. We talk about recognizing toxic communication patterns early, why words matter just as much as actions, and how to protect yourself from the jump so you can actually enjoy the process.Dr. Jennie breaks down her signature method, which flips the whole dating mindset on its head. Instead of searching for "the one," your only job is to rule men out fast, efficiently, and without guilt. The needle will reveal itself. This episode is about reclaiming your time, trusting your gut, and dating with strategy instead of hope.BIO:Jennie Young, PhD, is the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method and a professor of writing and rhetoric at the University of Wisconsin, Green Bay. She publishes work in humor, feminism, applied rhetoric, dating dynamics, and education. Her writing can be seen in McSweeney’s, Ms. magazine, The Independent, Huffpost, Inside Higher Ed, and elsewhere. Also, the author of a textbook that applies critical discourse analysis to contemporary high school culture, Young focuses on public scholarship, making academic content accessible for everyone.Resources Mentioned:Burn The Haystack Book | Instagram | Jennie Young Whenever You Are ReadyHere are 3 ways I can help you:​Book A Call with Me -  Book a time with me here!Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.Sincerely,Coach AnwarBook a Consult to Work with MeJoin my Get Your Guy ClubBuy My Dating Strategy CourseCheck out My Latest Podcast EpisodeMissed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?Send us Fan MailThank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!  

How to Be Displeasing

Hey girl,In this solo episode, I break down why so many women struggle with banter in dating and what is really underneath that discomfort. We talk about common fears women have when trying to be playful with men, especially the worry about being misunderstood, coming off the wrong way, or not knowing what to say. I also share how banter can actually be one of the most powerful tools for evaluating chemistry and keeping dating light, fun, and engaging.But the deeper conversation is about something bigger than humor. Many women have been socialized to be pleasing, agreeable, and accommodating, especially toward men. Banter challenges that conditioning. In this episode, I explore how learning to be a little more “displeasing” in dating can actually be empowering. When used with warmth and authenticity, banter becomes a way to set boundaries, test compatibility, and step fully into your power as the chooser in your dating life.Whenever You Are ReadyHere are 3 ways I can help you:​Book A Call With Me - I've been getting A LOT of DM and email requests to chat with me and answer specific questions about love, dating, relationships, and men, so I'm opening back up my limited calendar for a few calls. So book a time with me here!Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.​Sincerely,Coach AnwarBook a Consult to Work with MeJoin my Get Your Guy ClubBuy My Dating Strategy CourseCheck out My Latest Podcast EpisodeMissed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?Send us Fan MailThank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!  

Creating Your Own Luck in a Negative World with Les Alfred

Hey girl,In this episode, I sit down with Les Alfred for a powerful conversation about evolution, identity, and what it really takes to reinvent yourself publicly. We talk about her transition from Balanced Black Girl to She’s So Lucky, what sparked the rebrand, and how she navigated the emotional and strategic layers of stepping into a new era.Les opens up about handling criticism, staying optimistic in the face of online noise, and protecting her vision while expanding it. This episode is about growth, courage, and giving yourself permission to outgrow old versions of yourself — plus a glimpse into who she’s becoming and the energy she’s claiming for 2026.BIO:Les Alfred is a media entrepreneur and host of the NAACP Image Award-nominated podcast, She’s So Lucky (Dear Media). Known for millions of downloads and a keen eye for cultural impact, Les is building a women-centered media company to amplify underrepresented voices. Her work seamlessly blends content and culture to elevate, empower, and entertain.Stay connected with Les and her latest projects by following her on all social platforms!TikTok | Instagram | YouTube | She's So Lucky | Apple PodcastWhenever You Are ReadyHere are 3 ways I can help you:​Book A Call with Me -  Book a time with me here!Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.Sincerely,Coach AnwarBook a Consult to Work with MeJoin my Get Your Guy ClubBuy My Dating Strategy CourseCheck out My Latest Podcast EpisodeMissed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?Send us Fan MailThank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!  

Let's Talk About Fibroids with Dr. Mikhail

Hey girl,In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Mikhail Higgins for an essential and eye-opening conversation about fibroids and why they show up so frequently in the lives of Black women. We talk about what fibroids are, how they often develop quietly over time, and why so many women normalize symptoms that should never be ignored.This conversation centers on awareness, self-advocacy, and understanding your body beyond what you have been told is “normal.” Dr. Higgins brings medical clarity while also naming the lived reality of Black women navigating reproductive health. This episode is an invitation to stop minimizing your symptoms, ask better questions, and take your health seriously without fear or shame.BIO:Dr. Mikhail Higgins is a Nassau, Bahamas native and the country’s first U.S. board-certified, fellowship-trained interventional radiologist. He is the founder and Medical Director of the Bahamas Fibroid and Interventional Clinic, providing minimally invasive, nonsurgical fibroid treatment across the Caribbean. Formerly a Boston University faculty member, he now holds national leadership roles in interventional radiology and is recognized for advancing fibroid care regionally and globally.Resources Mentioned:Instagram | TikTok | Bahamas Fibroid & Interventional ClinicWhenever You Are ReadyHere are 3 ways I can help you:​Book A Call With Me - Book a time with me here!Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.Sincerely,Coach AnwarBook a Consult to Work with MeJoin my Get Your Guy ClubBuy My Dating Strategy CourseCheck out My Latest Podcast EpisodeMissed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?Send us Fan MailThank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!  

Getting in Touch with Your Intuition with Natalie Miller

Hey girl,In this episode, I sit down with Natalie Miller for a grounded, illuminating conversation about intuition and what it really sounds and feels like when it is coming from truth rather than fear. We explore how intuition lives in the body, why so many women feel disconnected from it, and how modern life and conditioning can blur the line between inner knowing and anxiety.Natalie shares powerful insights on learning to recognize your own intuitive language, reconnecting with the present moment, and rebuilding trust with your body in simple, practical ways. This episode is an invitation to slow down, soften, and remember that your intuition is not something you need to find. It is something you return to. BIO:Natalie Miller is a Master Certified, intersectionally feminist mindset coach and business mentor. She helps high-impact, cutting-edge super achievers - people who can do anything - cultivate abundant self-love and trust so that they finally create the life they actually want. Decades of teaching, coaching, and entrepreneurial success give Natalie a deep well of resources with which to support thought leaders and creatives. Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Mind Witchery | nataliekmiller.comEveryday Intuition by Elizabeth GreenwoodWhenever You Are ReadyHere are 3 ways I can help you:​Book A Call With Me - Book a time with me here!Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy, but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1-on-1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $350…​Check out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. Check out the latest episode here.Sincerely,Coach AnwarBook a Consult to Work with MeJoin my Get Your Guy ClubBuy My Dating Strategy CourseCheck out My Latest Podcast EpisodeMissed any of my Q&A TikTok Live sessions?Send us Fan MailThank You: A big thank you to our listeners for tuning in! Your support and feedback are invaluable to us. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider subscribing, rating, and sharing the podcast with others who might benefit from it. For more updates and behind-the-scenes content, follow me on social media and visit my website. We appreciate you being part of our community!