269. 3 Tips To Avoid the Pitfalls of Valentine's Day Expectations
Valentine's Day expectations promise romance but for many it just delivers disappointment. In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how to navigate expectations, express what you truly want, and use Valentine's Day (and everyday!) to create real connection and intimacy in your marriage. If you want additional guidance, sign up for Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's FREE course Beyond Roses and Chocolate, which will help you clarify your desires as you create deeper connection, on Valentine's Day and beyond. 👉 https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Subscribe to The Intimate Marriage Podcast Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Spotify Create a marriage that feels alive, deeply connected, and supportive of your ambitions and full life. Start here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/work-with-alexandra/ Apply for Relationship & Intimacy Coaching Personal coaching for couples who want more closeness, desire, and emotional safety without losing themselves or each other: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/private/ Aligned & Hot Marriage My proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise): https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com Read My Bestselling Book, Uncompromising Intimacy Learn the principles and practices that make deep connection and passion sustainable in long-term marriage: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the First Chapter (Free) A powerful introduction to what it truly takes to create extraordinary intimacy. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Stay Connected With Dr. Alexandra Connect Online: Website | LinkedIn | Instagram Join my email list for practical intimacy insights, relationship guidance, and invitations to live Q&A sessions: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe For speaking, media, or professional inquiries: https://alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ About Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
268. Initiating Sex: Emotional Strength and Presence Make Men More Attractive
Emotional strength and grounded presence are essential when initiating sex, in the context of long term relationships. In today's episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses how boys are raised and how that upbringing sets them up for failure as men. This shifts when men become more comfortable with vulnerability and presence; in the process attraction increases and relational connection deepens, all of which leads to a loving yes from a woman, and more fulfilling sex for both of them. If you're a man and this resonates with you, join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's online program, Initiating, and learn how to initiate in a way that builds trust and desire: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Subscribe to The Intimate Marriage Podcast Apple Podcasts | YouTube | Spotify Create a marriage that feels alive, deeply connected, and supportive of your ambitions and full life. Start here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/work-with-alexandra/ Apply for Relationship & Intimacy Coaching Personal coaching for couples who want more closeness, desire, and emotional safety without losing themselves or each other: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/private/ Aligned & Hot Marriage My proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise): https://www.alignedhotmarriage.com Read My Bestselling Book, Uncompromising Intimacy Learn the principles and practices that make deep connection and passion sustainable in long-term marriage: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the First Chapter (Free) A powerful introduction to what it truly takes to create extraordinary intimacy. https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Stay Connected With Dr. Alexandra Connect Online: Website | LinkedIn | Instagram Join my email list for practical intimacy insights, relationship guidance, and invitations to live Q&A sessions: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe For speaking, media, or professional inquiries: https://alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ About Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as "The Intimacy Doctor," Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of "Uncompromising Intimacy," host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she's been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
267. How to Initiate Sex With Confidence (Most Men Have Terrible Role Models)
Initiating sex successfully isn't about having the right words, it's about creating the right feeling. Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares a grounded, compassionate approach to masculine confidence, helping men create deeper intimacy, stronger connection, and a more fulfilling sexual relationship without pressure or performance. If this resonates with you, join Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's online program, Initiating and learn how to initiate in a way that builds trust and desire: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/initiating Start building more intimacy today with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's Intimate Connection, the Relationship App for Committed Couples: studio.com/dralexandra/intimacy Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
266. The Key to More Emotional and Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
Emotional and sexual intimacy in marriage depends less on chemistry and more on how partners choose to interact one moment to the next. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explains how mastering daily transitions creates deeper emotional connection and more fulfilling intimacy. If you want to learn how to transition into having sex successfully, join Dr. Alexandra's exclusive masterclass for men: How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she's more likely to say Yes). You'll gain practical tools you can use right away: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes/ For personalized support or to explore working with Dr. Alexandra directly, connect with her here:https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact
265. How To Successfully Initiate Sex (Without Pressure Or Rejection)
Learn to initiate sex without pressure by understanding what truly drives desire in long-term relationships. In this episode, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell shares how emotional safety, personal energy, and learnable intimacy skills help men navigate mismatched libido–reducing rejection, and increasing connection with their wives. If you want to learn more, join Dr. Alexandra's exclusive live masterclass for men: How to Ask for Sex So She's More Likely to Say Yes. You'll gain practical tools you can use right away: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: Website | Linkedin | Instagram Get your copy of "Uncompromising Intimacy" by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra's bestselling book, "Uncompromising Intimacy," here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra's proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra's email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights, and opportunities to learn with her: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: Simplified Impact