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Relaunch - Loving an Alcoholic — Boundaries, Relapse, and Trust

What does support look like when love and addiction collide? In this episode, we explore the challenges of being married to a high-functioning alcoholic who desperately wants to quit—but keeps relapsing in secret. We talk about shame, honesty, emotional boundaries, and the impossible position partners are often placed in: choosing between compassion and accountability. This conversation dives into addiction as a disease, the toll it takes on relationships, and how to approach relapse without losing trust—or yourself.Join the conversation on our Facebook page or Instagram!This episode contains discussion of alcoholism and addiction. If this topic is difficult for you, please take care while listening. If you or someone you love needs support, U.S. listeners can contact the SAMHSA National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for free, confidential assistance.

Relaunch - Emotional Cheating or Red Flags? When Trust Starts to Break Down

Is it insecurity—or intuition? In this episode, we dive into the early warning signs of emotional cheating and broken trust in a new relationship. After discovering sexting, hidden messages, and secrecy around Snapchat conversations, a woman questions whether she’s overreacting or ignoring clear red flags. We explore boundaries, transparency, trauma from past infidelity, and how to decide when a relationship no longer feels emotionally safe—even without concrete proof.If you have more advise or a different perspective then join our Facebook page or Instagram!

Relaunch - When Defensiveness Gets in the Way

In this episode, a man reflects on an uncharacteristic conflict in an otherwise emotionally healthy relationship. Despite shared therapy work and strong communication habits, a difficult week, unspoken needs, and external fears collided—leading to defensiveness, shutdown, and missed support on both sides. As his partner needed emotional presence, he found himself overwhelmed by his own feelings and unsure how to show up without abandoning himself. Caught between accountability and self-protection, he asks how to break the cycle before walls go up and connection is lost.