Mostly All Figured Out

The One Thing That Can Change Your Life This Year

Hi friends! Welcome back to Mostly All Figured Out! It’s 2026, and I’m kicking off this year by choosing a theme for myself that feels big and a little scary: money. Yep. This is the year I stop playing small, stop doing free labor, and start owning the value I bring - in business, in life, in everything.In this episode, I’m reflecting on the past few years of choosing a "word of the year" (remember freedom? gamechanger? routine?) and sharing why this year is all about financial growth, CEO energy, and actually believing I’m the boss I already am. I’m diving into what held me back before, what I’m focusing on now, and what I’m no longer available for (spoiler alert: burnout and undercharging).If you’ve been feeling stuck in survival mode, unsure how to level up, or just need a nudge to finally pick your own word of the year - this one’s for you.I’m talking about:How I pick my annual theme and why it mattersWhat “money” really means to me this yearThe tough love I got from a friend that changed everythingADHD, routines, and finding a rhythm that actually worksAnd how I plan to grow this podcast and my income this yearLet’s make 2026 the year we show up differently - more confident, more intentional, and more in charge of our lives. What’s your theme for the year? Let me know. Let’s do this together.Support the show💸 Want to support the pod? There’s a new listener support option now! Click the link above to be a part of the "Bunch of MAFOs" and I'll love you forever. Thank you to the current bunch!! Paul F, Michael H, Bridget W, Sam S, Ben S, Lauren B, Maria Q, Lizzy, Brandon G, and Mama 💜 What to do now? Subscribe to the channel! Episodes drop Thursdays. Usually. Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyallfiguredout To connect with me about event and fundraising consulting for your nonprofit, shoot me a DM on IG @inspiredeventscollective! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes: @mostlyallfiguredout ‬ Please rate and review the podcast! It really helps to get it in front of more people. And we love you for it. Show theme music by: @4thstringaudio Thank you to our sponsor - Mercury Salon! Head to Mercury at 43 Allen Street to see Felicia and have all of your hairy needs met. Call her to book an appointment: (716) 883-8800

How Working From Home Helped Me Create an Intentional Christmas (and an Evening Routine That Stuck)

In this episode of Mostly All Figured Out, I’m sharing how working from home unexpectedly helped me create a more intentional holiday season, build an evening routine that actually stuck, and be more present with my kids during December.I knew going into this month that I’d have the boys a lot - their dad was gone for most of December - and I didn’t want to look back and feel like I missed it while technically being there the whole time. So I got intentional with my days, locked in during work hours, and built small systems that supported the kind of mom and human I wanted to be this season.We talk about:Working from home as a system (not just a vibe)Building an evening routine without forcing itHabit stacking and ADHD-friendly routinesHow washing the dishes every night completely changed my life (swear to God, I'm just as shocked as you are)Being present with your kids without burning yourself outWhy small, supportive habits matter more than big overhaulsI also share a quick update on working on the inauguration reception for Buffalo’s incoming mayor, Sean Ryan, and why there’s no real slowing down as the year wraps up.If you’ve been craving calmer days, better routines, or proof that small changes can actually change how your life feels - this episode is for you 💛Support the show💸 Want to support the pod? There’s a new listener support option now! Click the link above to be a part of the "Bunch of MAFOs" and I'll love you forever. Thank you to the current bunch!! Paul F, Michael H, Bridget W, Sam S, Ben S, Lauren B, Maria Q, Lizzy, Brandon G, and Mama 💜 What to do now? Subscribe to the channel! Episodes drop Thursdays. Usually. Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyallfiguredout To connect with me about event and fundraising consulting for your nonprofit, shoot me a DM on IG @inspiredeventscollective! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes: @mostlyallfiguredout ‬ Please rate and review the podcast! It really helps to get it in front of more people. And we love you for it. Show theme music by: @4thstringaudio Thank you to our sponsor - Mercury Salon! Head to Mercury at 43 Allen Street to see Felicia and have all of your hairy needs met. Call her to book an appointment: (716) 883-8800

The Tiny Bedtime Habit That Made a Big Difference

In this episode of Mostly All Figured Out, we are talking about the one habit that turned me from a stressy, scroll-til-midnight gremlin into a cozy, journal-writing, gym-going, calm mom. That’s right: I stopped bringing my phone to bed. And babies? I'm a changed woman.I’ll share:Why I started accidentally journaling (and my realization that there is no 'right' way to do it)How ditching screens led me to sexy romance novels (A Court of Thorns and Roses? Not for me. Sorry to the fae community.)The cozy and healing magic of tarot cards and my guilty pleasure tarot interpreter - DON'T JUDGE ME I'M JUST A GIRLA little love letter to my favorite podcast that re-lit my fire for personal growthThe very real ADHD struggles with time, routine, and money - and how I’m finally fighting back with better habitsThis month’s new healthy habit: working from home (and not bankrupting myself at coffee shops anymore)And the mantra saving my life right now: My reaction is my powerPlus, I share what I’ve been up to, what’s been working, and how this whole one-new-habit-a-month thing is slowly shifting my life.Listen if you’re:Craving a dopamine detoxTired of being tired all the timeCurious about how tiny changes can create massive momentumA single parent, an ADHD girlie, or someone just trying to hold it all together no screen bedtime habit, ADHD and routines, healthy habit podcast, self care for moms, tarot for beginners, journaling mental health, dopamine detox, working from home ADHD, romance books for anxiety, mostly all figured out podcastSupport the show💸 Want to support the pod? There’s a new listener support option now! Click the link above to be a part of the "Bunch of MAFOs" and I'll love you forever. Thank you to the current bunch!! Paul F, Michael H, Bridget W, Sam S, Ben S, Lauren B, Maria Q, Lizzy, Brandon G, and Mama 💜 What to do now? Subscribe to the channel! Episodes drop Thursdays. Usually. Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyallfiguredout To connect with me about event and fundraising consulting for your nonprofit, shoot me a DM on IG @inspiredeventscollective! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes: @mostlyallfiguredout ‬ Please rate and review the podcast! It really helps to get it in front of more people. And we love you for it. Show theme music by: @4thstringaudio Thank you to our sponsor - Mercury Salon! Head to Mercury at 43 Allen Street to see Felicia and have all of your hairy needs met. Call her to book an appointment: (716) 883-8800

Dating After Divorce: My Sister’s Teen Mom Story & Our Roast of the Worst Dating App Profiles

Okay, this one? A true emotional rollercoaster.Lizzy (my actual sister, not just in vibes - she's legally my sibling) is back on the pod, and we are talking about everything. From her journey as a teen mom, to both of us getting divorced, to dating again in our 30s and how different our experiences have been...it’s all in here.There’s a story in here where Lizzy had to fake passing out just to get medical care. There’s a man who felt the need to clarify “I’m not gay” in his dating profile. There are espresso martinis. There is chaos. And now there's you.We get into:Lizzy’s teen pregnancy and marriage/divorce storyWhat it’s really like dating post-divorce (spoiler: UN-HINGE-D)A savage roast of some of the worst dating app bios we’ve seen (and saved for your listening pleasure)What we actually want in a relationship now, and why we won’t settle for lessThe comforting joy of ginger ale and Lorna Doones in a crisisIf you've ever faked enthusiasm for a man with “Bills Mafia” in his bio, this episode is for you.What you’ll walk away with:A reminder that you’re not alone in the messPermission to laugh at things that were once not funnySisterly advice on what red flags to dodge like your life depends on itDeep validation if you’re feeling like love is broken - it’s not, the apps just might beHighlights & Time Stamps:00:00 – Sisters’ reunion & immediate chaos02:30 – Lizzy’s teen‑mom journey + unexpected hospital trip16:00 – My divorce story + re‑starting life and self‑worth28:45 – Dating app horror show: the worst bios we’ve saved36:20 – What we really want in a partner (and why we’ve changed)42:00 – Wrap‑up, sibling shout‑outs, next episode teaseNot every episode will be about dating, I promise. But this one? Absolutely had to be. Part two is coming soon, and you’ll want to be here for it.Love you. Mean it.Now go swipe left on that man holding a fish.Support the show💸 Want to support the pod? There’s a new listener support option now! Click the link above to be a part of the "Bunch of MAFOs" and I'll love you forever. Thank you to the current bunch!! Paul F, Michael H, Bridget W, Sam S, Ben S, Lauren B, Maria Q, Lizzy, Brandon G, and Mama 💜 What to do now? Subscribe to the channel! Episodes drop Thursdays. Usually. Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyallfiguredout To connect with me about event and fundraising consulting for your nonprofit, shoot me a DM on IG @inspiredeventscollective! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes: @mostlyallfiguredout ‬ Please rate and review the podcast! It really helps to get it in front of more people. And we love you for it. Show theme music by: @4thstringaudio Thank you to our sponsor - Mercury Salon! Head to Mercury at 43 Allen Street to see Felicia and have all of your hairy needs met. Call her to book an appointment: (716) 883-8800

New Bedtime Boundaries, Holiday Grief, and Healing While Co-Parenting

This episode is a mix of real talk, healing energy, and gentle chaos. I’m opening up about a big bedtime shift that’s actually helping my anxiety and sleep - no screens in bed. My phone’s across the room now, and suddenly I’m… journaling? Reflecting? Pulling tarot cards?? Who even am I. Spoiler: I like her.But the biggest shift? Prepping for 9 days without my kids while they travel overseas with their dad - over Thanksgiving. It’s the longest we’ve ever been apart, and it’s stirring up big emotions: grief, co-parenting anxiety, and solo holiday dread. But instead of spiraling, I’m finding ways to turn pain into power.If you’re in a life transition, facing a solo holiday, or just navigating a hard co-parenting moment, this one’s for you.🔑 In this episode, I share:The bedtime boundary that’s saving my sleep and mental healthWhy journaling is suddenly working (for real this time)How I’m prepping for a kid-free Thanksgiving (without losing it)My gratitude list ritual for reframing grief and lonelinessWhat it means to choose healing over hurting, even when it’s hard🎙️ This podcast is for you if you're:A millennial figuring out life in real timeA co-parent managing complex emotionsHealing through grief, transitions, or just… being aliveCraving relatable, vulnerable, and sometimes hilarious conversationsWanna support the pod? You can join my monthly supporters for $3, $5, $8, or $10. It’s easy, super appreciated, and you might get a little surprise from me before the new year 🎁 Link’s in my bio @mostlyallfiguredout or in the  notes below.Thanks for being here. If you’re walking through something tough, too, I see you. And I choose to believe, this might be the fire that sets us free. ✨Support the show💸 Want to support the pod? There’s a new listener support option now! Click the link above to be a part of the "Bunch of MAFOs" and I'll love you forever. Thank you to the current bunch!! Paul F, Michael H, Bridget W, Sam S, Ben S, Lauren B, Maria Q, Lizzy, Brandon G, and Mama 💜 What to do now? Subscribe to the channel! Episodes drop Thursdays. Usually. Follow us on Instagram: @mostlyallfiguredout To connect with me about event and fundraising consulting for your nonprofit, shoot me a DM on IG @inspiredeventscollective! Subscribe to the YouTube Channel to watch the episodes: @mostlyallfiguredout ‬ Please rate and review the podcast! It really helps to get it in front of more people. And we love you for it. Show theme music by: @4thstringaudio Thank you to our sponsor - Mercury Salon! Head to Mercury at 43 Allen Street to see Felicia and have all of your hairy needs met. Call her to book an appointment: (716) 883-8800