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E146 - "Every Relationship ENDS!": The #1 Divorce Lawyer on Love, Marriage & Money | James Sexton

» Produced by Hack You Media: pioneering a new category of content at the intersection of health performance, entrepreneurship & cognitive optimisation.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/Website: https://hackyou.media/James Sexton, a divorce lawyer, on why fear is good, why marriage needs a plan, and why heartbreak matters.As someone who sees relationships fail every day, James explains that scepticism about marriage is actually healthy, real bravery requires fear. Most people don't realise marriage is the most legally significant thing you'll do and enter it with zero plan, yet they plan everything in fitness. Passion and chemistry don't equal partnership compatibility, and complacency kills relationships when partners stop trying after "locking someone in." Relationships need intentionality, maintenance, and honest feedback like any other area of life.The hardest part isn't falling in love, it's believing you're worthy of it. Heartbreak is painful but beautiful because grief proves you had something worth losing, and those experiences create the depth most people never experience.00:00 Introduction06:21 Past Relationships and Compatibility10:19 Relationships as Career vs Side Hustle14:55 Designing a Perfect Life Without Marriage18:40 Complacency and Maintenance in Marriage27:10 Honesty and Difficult Conversations in Relationships30:21 Teaching Relationship Skills and Managing Disconnection35:12 Comparison Between Fitness and Relationships40:42 Age and Experience in Love and Marriage45:48 Intentionality in Relationships and Maintaining Love50:01 Appreciating and Valuing Relationships55:14 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Love1:02:59 The Importance of Having Children1:05:47 Financial Stability and Motivation with Children1:11:22 Fame, Wealth, and Relationship Challenges1:18:10 Performance Art in Relationships and Social Media1:25:33 Belief in Love and Life's Fundamental Questions» Escape the 9-5 & build your dream life - https://www.digitalplaybook.net/» Transform your physique - https://www.thrstapp.com/» My clothing brand, THRST - https://thrstofficial.com» Discover Bioniq Lab peptide products- https://bioniqlab.com/mike1010% off with code MIKE10» Join our newsletter for actionable insights from every episode: https://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/» Join Whoop and get your first month for free - join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst» Follow JamesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer/?hl=enWebsite: https://www.nycdivorces.com/

E145 - To Become a Man, You Must Kill The Boy Before It's Too Late | Cole Hastings

Reconsidered formatting preferences and removed visual separators» Produced by Hack You Media: pioneering a new category of content at the intersection of health performance, entrepreneurship & cognitive optimisation.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/Website: https://hackyou.media/» Echoes Across Infinity: https://geni.us/echoesacrossinfinityCole Hastings is worried about how modern entertainment is destroying people's ability to think and relate to each other. Content creators need to protect their reputation because once it's damaged, it never comes back, and platforming the wrong person can ruin you years later.Most dating coaches online are just projecting their own failures onto young people who trust them completely. People are lonelier because nobody organises hangouts anymore, so find communities around shared interests, meet people in person, and stop listening to dating advice from people who've never actually had a real relationship.00:00 Introduction02:01 Concerns about declining literacy08:31 Entrepreneurship and concerning cultural values13:10 Impact of controversial collaborations19:30 Navigating loneliness and personal reflection24:54 Impact of social media on personal interactions29:43 The importance of male friendships37:31 Challenges of maintaining friendships in adulthood42:51 Meeting new people and improving social circles49:07 Issues with relationship advice online57:52 The pitfalls of excessive focus on appearance1:04:56 Experience with veganism and dietary challenges1:09:07 Diverse perspectives on health and wellness1:18:08 Exploring shadow work and self-reflection1:27:44 Addressing the stigma of therapy» Escape the 9-5 & build your dream lifehttps://www.digitalplaybook.net/» Transform your physiquehttps://www.thrstapp.com/» My clothing brand, THRSThttps://thrstofficial.com» Discover Bioniq Lab peptide products (10% off with code MIKE10)https://bioniqlab.com/mike10» Join our newsletter for actionable insights from every episodehttps://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/» Join Whoop and get your first month for freehttps://join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst» Follow Cole:Book: https://geni.us/echoesacrossinfinityYouTube: https://youtube.com/@colehastingsSubstack: https://colehastings.substack.comInstagram: https://instagram.com/colehastings_

E144 - Everything You Were Told About Approaching Women Is Wrong (Full Attraction Guide)

» Produced by Hack You Media: pioneering a new category of content at the intersection of health performance, entrepreneurship & cognitive optimisation.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/Website: https://hackyou.media/Tristan Yoder teaches cold approach, talking to women in daylight without tactics or games, just genuine conversation and masculine confidence. The old pickup artistry lines got overused, and women started calling them out, so now direct interest works better than playing it cool.He breaks down the biggest mistakes: men think they need to be jacked, rich, or have game, when really you just need to not be scared to say hi and genuinely make her feel special instead of generic. Most Americans stay broken at dating because materialism and a limited worldview convince them they need external validation before they deserve women, just go say hi to her.00:00 Introduction02:01 Intro to dating and relationship dynamics07:13 Understanding what women find attractive today14:18 Importance of personal appearance and confidence19:16 The impact of societal influences and negative content28:36 Overcoming approach anxiety and building confidence35:37 The significance of an abundance mindset in dating43:58 The importance of travel and diverse dating experiences54:11 The impact of societal expectations on relationships1:00:20 Navigating honesty and responsibility in dating1:06:24 Evaluating the role of female dating coaches1:12:41 Balancing in-person and online dating strategies1:19:01 Future personal growth and relationship perspectives1:25:08 The effects of technology and AI on future dating1:33:28 Reflections on relationship expectations and fulfilment» Escape the 9-5 & build your dream life - https://www.digitalplaybook.net/» Transform your physique - https://www.thrstapp.com/» My clothing brand, THRST - https://thrstofficial.com» Discover Bioniq Lab peptide products- https://bioniqlab.com/mike1010% off with code MIKE10» Join our newsletter for actionable insights from every episode: https://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/» Join Whoop and get your first month for free - join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst» Follow TristanInstsagram: https://www.instagram.com/tristansocial/?hl=enWebsite: academy.tristansocial.com

E143 - Modern Men Are Soft, Tired & Lost (Here's How To Become Strong Again)

» Produced by Hack You Media: pioneering a new category of content at the intersection of health performance, entrepreneurship & cognitive optimisation.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/Website: https://hackyou.media/A generation of men are checking out, living at home, avoiding dating, gaming and scrolling instead of building lives. Connor Beaton breaks down the cultural narrative that's convinced boys they're faulty from birth, how fatherlessness and job market discrimination created the perfect storm, and why suppressing emotions doesn't make you stronger, it makes you fragile. Mike opens up about losing his mum at 11 and how that shaped every relationship since, never processing the grief properly, just getting on with it. Connor explains how unprocessed pain doesn't stay quiet, it sabotages your relationships, your business, your health until you deal with it. The conversation covers why male guides matter more than therapists for men with father wounds, how emotional consistency beats sexual polarity in relationships, and why confronting hardship is how you actually mature instead of staying stunted.00:00 Introduction01:55 Addressing struggles faced by young men today06:32 Cultural perception of masculinity affecting men11:53 Gaming and other distractions are hindering ambition20:58 Effects of losing a parent on emotional development26:26 Processing grief and emotional expression30:51 Importance of processing pain for mental health38:10 Recognising when professional help is needed44:30 Gender of therapist influencing therapeutic outcomes50:11 Navigating vulnerability in relationships with women56:13 Pushing gender roles and their societal impacts1:09:52 Influence of social media on relationship dynamics1:25:14 Feminism's impact on modern gender relations1:30:08 Misleading influencer messages on masculinity1:35:21 Redefining what it means to be an alpha male» Escape the 9-5 & build your dream life - https://www.digitalplaybook.net/» Transform your physique - https://www.thrstapp.com/» My clothing brand, THRST - https://thrstofficial.com» Discover Bioniq Lab peptide products- https://bioniqlab.com/mike1010% off with code MIKE10» Join our newsletter for actionable insights from every episode: https://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/» Join Whoop and get your first month for free - join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst» Follow ConnorInstsagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/?hl=enWebsite: https://connorbeaton.com/

E142 - Matt Morsia: How I Reinvented My Life (Money, Media, Burnout & Family)

» Produced by Hack You Media: pioneering a new category of content at the intersection of health performance, entrepreneurship & cognitive optimisation.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hackyoumedia/Website: https://hackyou.media/→ Pre-order Fitness Unlocked: https://tinyurl.com/8w56htzwMatt Morsia is back on the show to talk about detaching his bicep, building his dream house, shutting down his energy drink, and why his new book actually tells you what to do instead of just theory.Matt explains how his bicep literally came off and now has two anchors making it indestructible, why you get used to dream houses quickly unless guests remind you it's cool, and how Gladiators killed Morphe Energy, minimum orders were 750,000 cans, and he lost all mental capacity and financial desire when BBC came calling. This covers why his new book gives exact training plans instead of theory, how his face ended up on an erotic novel cover, leading to book signings with middle-aged women in New York, and why training should be guided by goals, not gender.00:00 Introduction02:13 Introductions and playful banter between hosts06:12 Children's ambitions and parenting philosophy12:04 Navigating injuries and rapid recovery genetics18:36 Balancing personal growth with busy schedules25:00 Evolving YouTube strategies and keeping content fresh30:00 Pros and cons of managing a clothing brand35:14 Writing a book vs creating other content40:28 Importance of authenticity in social media45:00 Misconceptions about fitness for women51:28 Insight into new book "Fitness Unlocked"1:02:10 Future podcast aspirations and challenges1:11:24 The art of making engaging YouTube content1:15:25 Planning adrenaline-filled future adventures1:30:00 Wrapping up with creative new ventures and Arsenal accolades» Escape the 9-5 & build your dream life - https://www.digitalplaybook.net/» Transform your physique - https://www.thrstapp.com/» My clothing brand, THRST - https://thrstofficial.com/» Discover Bioniq Lab peptide products- https://bioniqlab.com/mike1010% off with code MIKE10» Join our newsletter for actionable insights from every episode: https://thrst-letter.beehiiv.com/» Join Whoop and get your first month for free - join.whoop.com/FirstThingsThrst» Follow MattInstsagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattdoesfitness/?hl=enWebsite: www.morsialtd.com