Stable Parenting Podcast

Intentional Belief Creation Part 2: Value Beliefs vs Behavior Beliefs

The Hidden Beliefs Blocking Your GrowthMost people try to change habits, behaviors, and patterns at the surface level. They work harder, learn more, and apply new strategies, yet nothing really sticks.In this episode, Shane breaks down why behavior change fails when deeper value beliefs go unexamined. You’ll hear how the mind protects identity, how past events quietly turn into verdicts about worth, and why the system isn’t broken, it’s loyal.If you’ve ever felt like growth takes more effort than it should, this episode will change how you understand belief change from the inside out.What You’ll DiscoverWhy most so-called limiting beliefs are symptoms, not causesHow value judgments about self quietly set the ceiling for successWhy separating what happened from what it means about you changes everything

Why You’re Stuck: The Beliefs Quietly Running Your Life

Feeling stuck isn’t about discipline, motivation, or a missing system. It’s about the beliefs you’ve been living inside, most of them formed without your permission. In this episode, Shane breaks down why people stay trapped even when they “do everything right,” how beliefs shape every result you get, and where those beliefs actually come from. This is the foundation work most personal development skips and it’s where real change begins.What You’ll Discover:The hidden gap between who you are and who you believe you should beWhy good systems fail when beliefs stay untouchedThe three sources of self-beliefs that shape every decision you make

Confidence vs. Self-Confidence: Trusting Yourself Matters More Than Feeling Ready

We talk about confidence as if it’s something you either have or don’t but that belief is exactly what’s holding you back.In this episode, we break down the critical difference between confidence and self-confidence, why confidence is rooted in your past, and why self-confidence is the skill that actually creates growth, leadership, and momentum in your life.If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting to feel “ready,” this conversation will help you understand why confidence doesn’t come first and what to build instead.What You’ll Discover· Why confidence is unreliable and how it quietly keeps you tied to what you already know· How self-doubt blocks momentum without you realizing it· A practical framework for building real self-confidence

Your Duty to the Ones You Love and to the World

In this episode, Shane breaks down a duty most people never think about. The duty to yourself. He explains why your self beliefs influence every decision, why your relationship with yourself affects every relationship in your life, and why taking responsibility for your worth is the beginning of real change.What you will discover• The real cost of ignoring your relationship with yourself and how it quietly impacts every part of your life• The belief patterns most people never notice but rely on every day• The link between your private thoughts and the results you keep getting in your relationships, work, and personal goals

Breaking Cycles of Shame and Regret

Shane Jacob shares three powerful truths he discovered when facing his hardest moments. These lessons go beyond surface advice and dig into how your beliefs quietly control your world and how you can rewrite them.What awaits you in the episode: What keeps us stuckA 3-part foundation for intentional living.Practical steps to elevate your perspective and transform your reality