From Foster to Forever

Dyslexia Isn’t a Reading Problem: What Every Parent Should Know with Russell Van Brocklen

Dyslexia isn’t just a reading problem—it’s a whole brain vibe! In our chat today, we dive into some eye-opening insights with Russell Van Broecklin, a dyslexia researcher who's got the lowdown on how dyslexia works and why it’s not as straightforward as folks think. He lays down the truth that while dyslexics might read and write slower, their brains are firing on all cylinders when it comes to thinking. So, if you’ve got a kiddo who’s struggling, don’t sweat it! Russell shares some killer strategies for helping them thrive academically, even if traditional methods have made them feel like they’re swimming upstream. Join us as we unravel the myths and equip ourselves with some solid tools to help our little learners soar! Dyslexia is often misunderstood as a simple reading issue, but let me tell you, it’s way more complex than that. Russell Van Broecklin, our guest on the podcast, dives deep into the nuances of dyslexia, sharing his own journey and expertise as a New York State funded dyslexia researcher. He reveals that while dyslexics might read and write slower than their peers, they often think and process information faster, which flips the script on how we perceive learning difficulties. Throughout our conversation, Russell emphasizes the importance of recognizing the unique cognitive strengths dyslexics possess, which can lead to incredible academic and personal success when properly supported. He recounts his own experiences in law school, where he not only navigated the challenges of dyslexia but thrived, showcasing that with the right strategies, dyslexics can outperform even the best and brightest at institutions like Harvard. A standout moment from the episode is when he shares his research findings, revealing that he helped students go from struggling to thriving, often at a fraction of the cost of traditional approaches. It’s a game-changer for parents and educators alike, showing that understanding and tailored interventions can lead to phenomenal outcomes for dyslexic children.Takeaways:Dyslexia isn't just about reading; it's a whole brain organization thing that can affect writing too.Contrary to popular belief, dyslexics can learn to read better than many traditionally 'smart' kids.With the right strategies, dyslexics can think faster than their peers, especially in higher education settings.Identifying dyslexia early is crucial; if you suspect your child has it, get them tested by professionals as soon as possible.Links referenced in this episode:FromFosterToForever.comFosterToForeverpodcastdyslexiaclasses.comdyslexiaclasses.comMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Healing, Hope, and Holistic Care: Supporting Adopted Children with Dr. Aaron Hartman

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Rachel sits down with functional medicine physician and adoptive father Dr. Aaron Hartman to explore how early trauma, environmental factors, and holistic healthcare can shape the lives of foster and adopted children.Dr. Hartman shares the story of adopting his daughters through foster care and how his journey parenting a child with complex medical needs transformed his medical practice. Together, Rachel and Dr. Hartman discuss navigating the healthcare system, advocating for special-needs children, and practical ways families can support neurodivergent kids—emotionally, nutritionally, and medically.This conversation offers hope, validation, and actionable guidance for foster, adoptive, and kinship parents navigating complex challenges.🌱 In This Episode, We Discuss:Dr. Hartman’s journey adopting and his challenges with the system - being wrongful accused and having to defend himself without being defensive and taking it personally.Parenting children with medical and developmental challengesNavigating Child Protective Services and medical advocacyWhy early intervention can change a child’s life trajectoryFunctional and integrative medicine approaches for kidsGut health, nutrition, and brain developmentSupporting children with autism, ADHD, and trauma historiesHypermobility, low tone, and nutritional needsPractical strategies for families with limited resourcesFood sensitivities, picky eating, and reducing sugar dependencyAttachment struggles and building emotional safetyEnvironmental health, mold, and chemical exposureThe connection between soil, food quality, and human healthThoughtful, individualized approaches to vaccinesWhy parents must become strong advocates for their children💡 Key Takeaways✨ Handling the system with grace and ease. ✨ Early support and personalized care can dramatically improve long-term outcomes for children with special needs. ✨ Nutrition, gut health, and environment play a major role in brain and behavioral health. ✨ Attachment and emotional safety are essential for healing trauma. ✨ Parents don’t need perfection—but education, curiosity, and persistence matter. ✨ Hope is always possible, even with “hopeless” diagnoses.❤️ About Our GuestDr. Aaron Hartman is a functional and integrative medicine physician, researcher, and father of three, two of whom were adopted through foster care. His personal parenting journey led him to specialize in helping children and adults with complex, chronic, and neurodevelopmental conditions through holistic, individualized care.📚 Resources MentionedUncurable: From Hopeless Diagnosis to Defying All Odds by Dr. Aaron HartmanGAPS Diet (Gut and Psychology Syndrome)Low-Dose Naltrexone (LDN)Leucovorin Environmental Working Group’s Clean 15 & Dirty DozenDr. Hartman’s website, blogs, and podcast (for free education)📣 Connect With Us✨ Subscribe & Review: ✨ Website: ✨ Instagram ✨ FacebookMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

EMDR and Play Therapy with Trauma Expert Jenny Hornby

Recognizing our superpower as parents is the name of the game today, and it’s not about having all the answers. Our presence alone can be a game-changer for our kids, especially those who come from foster care and carry their own unique traumas. We’re diving deep with Jenny Hornby, a licensed counselor and trauma expert, who’s got some serious insights on how to help kids process their feelings in a safe way. We chat about EMDR therapy, which Jenny describes like taking a train ride through their experiences without reliving the trauma. So, whether you’re a seasoned foster parent or just curious about the journey, tune in for stories and tips that’ll resonate with anyone navigating the wild world of parenting! Join us as we embark on a heartfelt conversation about the power of presence in parenting, especially for those navigating the choppy waters of foster care and adoption. This episode features Jenny Hornby, a licensed counselor whose expertise in trauma therapy shines a light on the complexities of emotional healing for children. We kick things off with a discussion about EMDR therapy—an innovative approach that helps children process their trauma in a safe and structured way. Jenny explains how this technique allows kids to revisit painful memories without the overwhelming emotions that typically accompany them. By using relatable analogies, she makes the therapy sound not only effective but also approachable, inviting listeners to consider how vital it is for kids to know they aren’t alone in their struggles. The conversation shifts to Jenny's own experiences as an adoptive parent, where she shares poignant moments from her journey that resonate deeply. From the emotional intricacies of meeting her child’s birth mother to the joys and challenges of raising kids who have experienced trauma, Jenny’s stories paint a vivid picture of love and resilience. She also discusses the importance of open lines of communication and how to gently guide children through their feelings about their pasts. This relatability adds a layer of warmth and authenticity to the episode, making it a must-listen for anyone involved in or considering adoption. As we wind down, Jenny offers practical advice for parents on how to handle their children’s big emotions. She emphasizes the necessity of self-awareness for parents, reminding us that we need to check in with ourselves before we can effectively support our kids. The episode closes with a reminder that being present and allowing children to feel their emotions is one of the greatest gifts we can give them. With humor and heart, this episode serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that love, understanding, and patience can have on healing and growth for both parents and children.Takeaways:As parents, our greatest superpower is simply being there for our kids, no cap!When it comes to kids from foster care, trauma is almost a given, so we need to be prepared.EMDR therapy helps kids process trauma without reliving it, making it a game changer.Building trust with kids is crucial; it’s about showing up and letting them lead the way.Using creative methods like art and storytelling can help children express their fears and emotions.Being present is key—sometimes, just hanging out with your kid in silence can do wonders.Links referenced in this episode:fromFoster2forever.com@foster2foreverpodcastmsJennybooks.comFostering Families Today Magazine (10% off subscription)Mentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Adoption Adventures: Finding Our Family through Fostering

Today, we hear the heartfelt journey of David and Jill, who took the leap from being childless to adopting two beautiful siblings through the Foster to Adopt process. They share openly about how infertility led them to this path and speak about how this experience has transformed them into better people and deepened their love in ways they never imagined. From navigating the emotional rollercoaster of uncertainty, to the joys and challenges of raising toddlers who came from a tough background, their happy story is a testament to resilience and unconditional love. We chat about the importance of support systems, how to handle the unique dynamics of blended families, and the sheer joy of watching their kids thrive. So, tune in as we celebrate these non-traditional family stories that remind us that love knows no bounds! In this episode, we cover the inspiring journey of David and Jill, a couple who always wanted to be parents. When faced with infertility, they took the leap into the world of foster care and adoption. Their story isn't just about becoming parents; it's about overcoming challenges, embracing love, and the unexpected twists life throws your way. From their struggles with infertility to the joyful surprise of welcoming two sisters into their home, their candid conversation is filled with heartfelt reflections and light-hearted moments that keep the listeners engaged. They discuss how the foster-to-adopt process has transformed their lives, making them better individuals and parents, and how their love for their children runs deeper than they ever thought possible. David and Jill's experiences illustrate the highs and lows of fostering, including the emotional turmoil of potentially losing their girls when they first entered their lives. With a mix of humor and vulnerability, they recount the uncertainty of not knowing how long they would have the girls and the challenges of navigating the court system. Their honesty about the rollercoaster of emotions resonates with many, as they share the lessons learned through love, patience, and support from their community. The couple emphasizes the importance of connecting with others who understand the unique challenges of fostering, echoing the sentiment that it truly takes a village to raise a child. By sharing their journey, David and Jill not only highlight the beauty of foster care but also inspire others who may be considering this path. As they reflect on their family's growth and the love they have cultivated, listeners are left with a powerful message: the journey of parenting—whether through fostering or adopting—is filled with uncertainties, but the love that emerges from it is both profound and life-changing. This episode is a testament to the transformative power of family, no matter how it comes together.Takeaways:Becoming parents through fostering transformed us into better individuals, deepening our love.The journey from fostering to adoption can be long and emotionally challenging, but it's worth it.Having support from others who understand the challenges of fostering is absolutely priceless.Our kids, despite their tough beginnings, are full of love and joy, reminding us daily.Navigating the foster care system requires patience, faith, and a lot of love for the kids.The importance of being kind and building relationships with social workers and attorneys cannot be overstated.Companies mentioned in this episode:Foster2Forever.comThe VillageMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT

Foster Care Reality: Trauma, Love & Burnout with Emily Ellet

This episode is a deep dive into the world of foster care - specifically, fostering a teen as a single woman. Our guest, Emily Ellett, shares her personal journey as a foster parent with candor and insight, shedding light on the realities, challenges, and heartfelt moments that come with it. We tackle the common misconceptions surrounding these kids and how the truth often varies from what’s painted for potential foster parents. Emily's experiences reveal the rollercoaster of emotions that come with fostering teens, the unexpected hurdles, and the moments that make it all worth it. We chat about the importance of having a solid support system and the need to be open about what help you might need, all while keeping it real and relatable. Listen to hear all about love, resilience, and the complexities of foster care!From Foster to Forever takes a deep dive into the heartfelt and often unpredictable world of foster parenting in its latest episode featuring audiobook narrator and singer Emily Ellet. Listeners are treated to Emily's personal journey into fostering, which began from a place of genuine desire to help children who need a stable and loving home. The episode sheds light on the rigorous certification process she underwent, which served as her introduction to the realities of foster care, while also highlighting her personal experiences with trauma and the impact it had on her journey. Throughout the episode, Emily shares candid anecdotes about her first placements, illustrating the joys and difficulties that come with fostering teens who have faced significant challenges. Her reflections reveal the complexities of navigating relationships with not just the children but also with her own family, who were unsupportive of her decision to foster. This narrative not only underscores the emotional rollercoaster of fostering but also emphasizes the importance of having a solid support system in place. Emily’s transparency about her struggles, including the miscommunication with caseworkers and the emotional toll of her experiences, offers a realistic perspective that is often overlooked. The overarching message of the episode is clear: fostering is a journey filled with challenges, but the love and connection foster parents bring to the lives of children make it a deeply rewarding endeavor. Emily's story serves as both a cautionary tale and an inspiring guide for those considering fostering, reminding listeners that while the path is not easy, it is undeniably worthwhile. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone looking to understand the realities of foster care, especially when fostering an older child.Takeaways:Fostering can be a wild ride, and it's crucial to go in with your eyes wide open about the potential challenges ahead.Getting into fostering isn't just about helping kids; it's about knowing your own limits and having a solid support system in place.The reality of foster care often differs from the rosy picture painted by agencies; transparency is key for success.Foster parents need to be aware that the kids they take in may have complicated histories that could trigger their own past traumas, especially older children and teens.Links referenced in this episode:fromfoster2forever.com@foster2foreverpodcastMentioned in this episode:10% OFF FOSTERING FAMILIES TODAY MAGFostering Families Today is a bi-monthly magazine distributed to foster, kinship and adoptive families across the country offering resources, expert opinions, practical advice and information on the latest evidence-based best practices for supporting children and youth who come from traumatic backgrounds. Use coupon code foster10 to receive 10% off your annual subscription at fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. That's fosteringfamiliestoday dot com. FFT