This Isn’t a Vacation… It’s Her Life
Ep47: Belencia Wallace - Full Time Cruise Content CreatorIn this episode of Deck Tales, Sammy Catling chats with Belencia — better known as Ladybug Travel — a full-time content creator who has spent the past eight months living entirely on cruise ships. Broadcasting live from various corners of a Royal Caribbean ship (including a chapel for peace and quiet), Belencia shares what it’s really like to be a “constant cruiser,” hopping between nearly 30 ships while building a social media career at sea.From managing Wi-Fi, mail, and logistics to navigating ports independently, saving money through loyalty status, and balancing nonstop travel with content creation, Valencia offers a behind-the-scenes look at a lifestyle that sounds glamorous—but requires serious planning and stamina. Along the way, she reflects on favorite destinations, least-favorite ports, cultural lessons learned abroad, and how going all-in on herself has already paid off with viral growth and major media features.Key TakeawaysLiving full-time on cruise ships is possible—but only with extreme organization and planningCruise loyalty status can dramatically reduce daily living costs (Wi-Fi, laundry, drinks)Being a digital nomad doesn’t mean slowing down—burnout is real, even in paradiseIndependent travel in port offers deeper cultural experiences and major cost savingsBetting on yourself can pay off, but momentum brings new challenges and overwhelmCruise ships can be a powerful platform for storytelling, connection, and global reach00:00 – She Lives on Cruise ShipsHow Belencia ended up living full-time at sea06:12 – How This Lifestyle Even StartedThe moment cruising turned into a life choice13:45 – What Full-Time Cruise Life Is Really LikeDaily routines, cabins, food, and onboard reality20:58 – How She Affords Living at SeaCosts, budgeting, and whether this is cheaper than rent28:31 – The Biggest Myths About Cruise LifeWhat people get completely wrong about living on ships35:44 – The Hardest Parts of Living on Cruise ShipsLoneliness, logistics, and things no one talks about42:57 – Friendships, Dating & Social Life at SeaWhat relationships look like when you never stay still50:03 – Health, Safety & Long-Term SustainabilityBurnout, routines, and how long this lifestyle can last56:41 – Is This Lifestyle Actually Worth It?Trade-offs, regrets, and unexpected rewards01:03:28 – Advice for Anyone Who Wants to Do ThisWhat to know before trying full-time cruising01:08:20 – Final Thoughts & What’s NextReflections on freedom, travel, and what comes afterTo see clips of all our guests you can follow us on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/decktalesofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/decktalespodcast.TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@decktalesFor all links you can head to the official website: https://www.decktales.co.ukIf you wish to support the page you can leave a welcome donation at: https://ko-fi.com/decktalesAnd if you wish to read or listen to my first book, you can buy a copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Seems-Like-Smooth-Sailing-Catling/dp/1912964244Get Your Copy Of 'Seems Like Smooth Sailing' here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The Man Who Turns Forgotten Disasters Into Memorials
Ep46: Richard Jones - Naval Engineer and AuthorToday I'm speaking with Richard Jones — Royal Navy weapons engineer by day and one of Britain’s most prolific shipwreck and disaster historians by night. Richard shares how a lifelong fascination with maritime disasters turned into nearly three decades of research, 27+ published books, and multiple memorial campaigns honouring forgotten tragedies.The conversation dives into shipwrecks, air disasters, historical myths, and the emotional weight of researching real loss. Richard explains why he focuses on overlooked stories, how social media transformed historical research, and why he believes history belongs to everyone — not locked away in private archives. From Costa Concordia to lost wartime ships, this episode explores the thin line between human error, hubris, and remembrance.Key TakeawaysHistory isn’t owned — it’s shared. Richard’s mission is to preserve forgotten disasters before their stories disappear forever.Research is part detective work. Separating myth from fact often takes years of interviews, archives, and firsthand accounts.Modern tech changed everything. Social media now connects historians directly with survivors, families, and rare evidence.Memorials matter. For families, plaques and books can provide long-overdue closure and public recognition.Human error repeats itself. From Titanic to Titan, lessons at sea are often ignored — with tragic results.Respect over sensationalism. Some truths don’t need to be published to honor the people involved.https://shipwreckdata.wixsite.com/richard-m-joneshttps://bsky.app/profile/wreckmasterjay.bsky.socialhttps://disasters-shipwrecks.blogspot.com⏱️ YouTube Chapters (01:08:27)00:00 – Welcome Aboard Deck TalesSetting the scene: life at sea, disasters, and forgotten stories04:12 – From Navy Engineer to Shipwreck HistorianHow Richard Jones balances classified work with disaster research09:35 – Why Most Tragedies Are ForgottenMedia bias, death tolls, and how history chooses what survives15:48 – Shipwreck Myths vs RealitySeparating fact from fiction in maritime disasters21:32 – The Human Cost of Disaster ResearchThe unseen emotional toll of studying real loss28:10 – When Research Brings Families ClosureMemorials, survivors, and why remembrance matters35:04 – Titanic, Titan & Repeating MistakesWhy maritime disasters keep happening — again and again41:22 – The Survivors Who Defied the OddsRafts, wartime sinkings, and impossible survival stories48:05 – The Worst Captains in HistoryEgo, negligence, and decisions that doomed thousands54:18 – The Biggest Shipwreck Conspiracies DebunkedThe Titanic switch theory and other myths destroyed01:01:10 – Beyond Titanic: Why These Stories MatterLegacy, memory, and preserving history before it’s lost#piratelegend #seadogs #piracy #shipstories To see clips of all our guests you can follow us on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/decktalesofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/decktalespodcast.TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@decktalesFor all links you can head to the official website: https://www.decktales.co.ukIf you wish to support the page you can leave a welcome donation at: https://ko-fi.com/decktalesAnd if you wish to read or listen to my first book, you can buy a copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Seems-Like-Smooth-Sailing-Catling/dp/1912964244Get Your Copy Of 'Seems Like Smooth Sailing' here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sailing Into the Arctic to Clean Up Humanity’s Mess
Ep45: Zamira Chevrestt - Volunteer Co-ordinator for In The Same BoatToday I'm joined by Zamira, a volunteer coordinator and sustainability ambassador for the Norwegian environmental NGO In The Same Boat. Zamira shares what it’s really like cleaning marine litter along some of the most remote and unforgiving coastlines in the Arctic and Northern Europe — from freezing North Sea crossings to hauling tons of abandoned fishing gear off rocky beaches.The conversation dives into how the NGO operates its fleet of sailboats, trains volunteers with little to no sailing experience, and balances hands-on cleanup with education, data collection, and systemic change. Zamira also opens up about the emotional highs and lows of life at sea, burnout in the NGO world, and why staying hopeful — and human — is essential when tackling an overwhelming global problem.🌊 Key TakeawaysThe Arctic is heavily polluted — even the most remote coastlines are clogged with marine litter, especially from fishing industries.Cleaning is only part of the solution — education, data tracking, and collaboration with industries and governments are critical for long-term impact.Volunteers don’t need sailing experience — just resilience, teamwork, and a willingness to get uncomfortable.Life at sea is intense — physically demanding, emotionally charged, and deeply bonding.Burnout is real in environmental work — stepping back, finding joy, and focusing on small wins keeps people going.Individual actions still matter — change spreads person to person, habit to habit.📌 Chapters (01:07:57)01:38 – Meet Zamira & “In The Same Boat”Cleaning the Arctic, sailing north, and teaching kids why the ocean isn’t a bin04:10 – Volunteering at Sea: Who Can Join & What It’s Really LikeNo sailing experience, extreme conditions, and physical demands06:02 – Crossing the North Sea & Surviving Rough WatersSeasickness, storms, fear, dolphins, and why sailors keep coming back09:50 – How an Arctic Cleanup NGO Actually WorksFunding struggles, boats, tech, volunteers, and scaling impact12:40 – First Cleanup Shock: “I’d Never Seen This Much Trash”The myth of “clean” Norway and what shows up on remote beaches16:25 – A Day in the Life of a Marine Cleanup Crew12-hour days, midnight sun cleanups, weather chaos, and logistics20:35 – One Million+ KG of Trash & Tracking the DataGPS mapping, fishing nets, hotspots, and working with industry28:15 – Burnout, Boat Life & Being ‘In the Same Boat’Mental health, friendships, drama, romance, and volunteer reality35:35 – Plastic, Wildlife & The Stats That HurtSeabirds, whales, microplastics, and why this is urgent41:00 – Schools, Hope & Why the Next Generation MattersTeaching kids, community impact, staying hopeful, and what you can do52:30 – Boat Life Fun: Initiations, Food Fails & Reality TV EnergyGhost pepper shots, porridge crimes, and why this should be a show01:01:30 – Final Reflections: Why This Work Is Worth ItSmall wins, real change, and not giving up on the oceanTo see clips of all our guests you can follow us on:Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/decktalesofficialInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/decktalespodcast.TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@decktalesFor all links you can head to the official website:https://www.decktales.co.ukIf you wish to support the page you can leave a welcome donation at:https://ko-fi.com/decktalesAnd if you wish to read or listen to my first book, you can buy a copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Seems-Like-Smooth-Sailing-Catling/dp/1912964244Special Thanks To:Zamira Chevrestthttps://www.inthesameboat.ecoGet Your Copy Of 'Seems Like Smooth Sailing' here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The Pirate Code Was More Progressive Than Modern Society
Ep44: Anthony Cummins AKA Captain TonzToday I'm in talks with Captain Tonz — a real-life pirate with over 65 years at sea — to dismantle everything we think we know about piracy. From surviving rogue waves as a teenager to smuggling camels, outwitting the Royal Navy, and acting as a guardian of the ocean, Captain Tonz shares a life shaped by instinct, equality, and a deep spiritual connection to the sea. This isn’t a tale of Hollywood piracy — it’s a raw, philosophical journey through freedom, responsibility, and what it truly means to “boldly go.”Key TakeawaysPiracy isn’t what pop culture sells us: historically, pirates were explorers, innovators, and early champions of equality.Connection beats control: Captain Tonz credits survival and success at sea to listening, not conquering.The pirate code was radically progressive: equality, shared power, and respect were core principles.Modern threats to the ocean are invisible: pollution, automation, and disconnection pose greater danger than storms.Anyone can be a pirate — if they can connect, adapt, and take responsibility.Chapters00:00:00 — A Real Pirate Joins the PodcastMeet Captain Tonz and the myth vs reality of piracy00:04:42 — “Everything You Know About Pirates Is Wrong”The true meaning of piracy and where the word comes from00:09:05 — Running Away to Sea at 14From troubled childhood to life aboard ships00:14:18 — The Wave That Changed EverythingSurviving a rogue wave and finding purpose00:19:52 — Becoming a Pirate by AccidentA master pirate, the Baltic Sea, and a life-altering choice00:24:55 — Smuggling, Survival & Sea InstinctsWhy piracy is about planning, not chaos00:30:08 — Camels, Cargo & Breaking RecordsThe strangest things ever smuggled at sea00:35:12 — Escaping the Royal NavyChains, hacksaw blades, and a Gibraltar breakout00:40:18 — Pirate Code: Radical Equality at SeaWhy pirates were centuries ahead of their time00:45:55 — Prison Cells & Close CallsFrom East Germany to unexpected hospitality00:51:02 — UFOs, Legends & Sea MysteriesWhat sailors see that landlubbers never will00:56:10 — Are Pirates the Guardians of the Ocean?Pollution, responsibility, and protecting the sea01:01:48 — Somali Pirates & The Truth Behind the HeadlinesWhat really created modern piracy01:08:32 — Stopping Environmental Crimes at SeaWhen pirates enforced justice no one else would01:14:55 — Who Can Be a Pirate?Mental health, connection, and fearlessness01:21:30 — Johnny Depp, Stephen Fry & Dream CrewsCasting pirates and Hollywood truth01:28:45 — Pirates, AI & the Future of NavigationWhy modern sailors are losing vital skills01:34:20 — Final Message from the SeaA warning, a responsibility, and a call to acthttps://captaintonz.comhttps://www.originalpiratematerial.co.uk/#piratelegend #seadogs #piracy #shipstories To see clips of all our guests you can follow us on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/decktalesofficialInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/decktalespodcast.TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@decktalesFor all links you can head to the official website: https://www.decktales.co.ukIf you wish to support the page you can leave a welcome donation at: https://ko-fi.com/decktalesAnd if you wish to read or listen to my first book, you can buy a copy here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Seems-Like-Smooth-Sailing-Catling/dp/1912964244Get Your Copy Of 'Seems Like Smooth Sailing' here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
“I Forgot My Camera Charger… During a Whale Bonanza”
Ep43: Sara Bisset - Marine Mammal Observer (MMO) and Passive Acoustic Monitoring (PAM) operatorIn this episode of Deck Tales, I'm chatting with Sara Bisset, a Scotland-based seafarer who’s spent the last decade working offshore as a Marine Mammal Observer (MMO) and Passive Acoustic Monitoring (PAM) operator—basically, someone paid to protect whales and dolphins from noisy marine construction and exploration work. Sara breaks down how mitigation works during operations like seismic surveys, wind farm piling, and even disposal of unexploded WWII ordnance, and explains what happens when marine life enters an exclusion zone (spoiler: everything can stop, and it can cost a fortune). Beyond the job, Sara shares the reality of freelance life at sea—project-to-project contracts, chasing agencies, and the strange feeling of having long stretches of freedom while everyone else works 9–5. She also dives into memorable wildlife encounters, like spotting an elusive beaked whale species, and living through near-constant humpback sightings off Gabon… right after forgetting her camera charger.Key takeawaysWhat MMOs & PAM operators actually do: They visually and acoustically monitor for marine mammals during noisy offshore operations and can trigger delays/shutdowns depending on rules and location. Big misconception: It’s not “watching whales for fun”—it’s compliance, mitigation, and high-stakes decision-making tied to permits, law, and massive costs. The lifestyle is ultra-flexible… and oddly lonely: Freelancing means feast-or-famine contracts, lots of admin between jobs, and time off that doesn’t always sync with friends’ lives. Best moments at sea are unforgettable: Rare beaked whale encounters and endless humpback sightings show why people get “itchy feet” to return offshore. The industry is shifting: More wind farm work is replacing older oil & gas reliance, and remote monitoring tech (and AI) is slowly reshaping the job.Get Your Copy Of 'Seems Like Smooth Sailing' here Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.