Gleaning Mustard Seeds with Jerrie Barber

When a church splits

Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — JerrieChurch splits leave scars that last for decades—not just on congregations, but on hearts. In this episode, I revisit a painful division involving people I loved on both sides, the fear of being “marked,” and the long road toward understanding what scripture really teaches about doctrine, conflict, and unity. Episode 92 isn’t about choosing sides—it’s about choosing faithfulness, long-suffering, and biblical wisdom when a church tears itself apart. If you’ve lived through a church split—or fear one may be coming—this conversation is for you.       Between PreachersWhen you find a "mustard seed," please share the address of this podcast with a friend: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2369804/episodes/17566838Website for Braden Parsons PhotographyBraden Parsons' email:  bradencparsons@gmail.comIf you'd like to discuss your roofing needs, call Jerrie Wayne Barber, II, at 931.628.3390 This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. There is no additional charge to you.Fleecy Clouds: One Woman's Story of Surviving and Thriving After Childhood AbuseSubscribe to my two blogs:       New Shepherds Orientation       Between Preachers...

Elders learning to be better shepherds

Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — JerrieBeing an elder is more than a title—it’s a calling. In this episode, we examine Peter’s appeal to elders and Jesus’ model of shepherding to ask hard questions about leadership. Drawing from 1 Peter 5 and John 10, we challenge common assumptions and call all leaders to Christ-shaped shepherding under the Chief Shepherd. If you care about the health of the flock, this episode is for you.This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.When you find a "mustard seed," please share the address of this podcast with a friend: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2369804/episodes/17566838Website for Braden Parsons PhotographyBraden Parsons' email:  bradencparsons@gmail.comIf you'd like to discuss your roofing needs, call Jerrie Wayne Barber, II, at 931.628.3390 This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. There is no additional charge to you.Fleecy Clouds: One Woman's Story of Surviving and Thriving After Childhood AbuseSubscribe to my two blogs:       New Shepherds Orientation       Between Preachers...

Talking to elders about money

Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — JerrieMost preachers don’t learn how to talk to elders about money in school—they learn it the hard way. In this episode, I start with my own bad example and trace the lessons that came from awkward questions, unspoken assumptions, and embarrassing moments. From unpaid vacations to refusing a raise out of fear, to discovering the wisdom of written agreements, this is an honest, practical conversation about money, trust, and leadership. If you’re a preacher, an elder, or anyone who cares about healthy church relationships, this episode may save you years of confusion—and a few sleepless nights.Listen to episode 41, Refusing a raiseThis podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.When you find a "mustard seed," please share the address of this podcast with a friend: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2369804/episodes/17566838Website for Braden Parsons PhotographyBraden Parsons' email:  bradencparsons@gmail.comIf you'd like to discuss your roofing needs, call Jerrie Wayne Barber, II, at 931.628.3390 This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. There is no additional charge to you.Fleecy Clouds: One Woman's Story of Surviving and Thriving After Childhood AbuseSubscribe to my two blogs:       New Shepherds Orientation       Between Preachers...

How to leave a church

Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — JerrieMost preachers spend years preparing for sermons, visits, and beginnings—but almost no time learning how to leave a church well. In this episode, I share what I learned the hard way through painful exits, family strain, an abrupt dismissal, and, eventually, thoughtful and healing departures. From quoting the Sermon on the Mount to avoid criticism, to sitting in living rooms saying “thank you,” “I love you,” and “goodbye,” this is a candid look at how endings shape congregations, families, and future ministry. Whether you’re a preacher, an elder, or a church member who knows change is inevitable, this episode’ll challenge you to think differently about how we say goodbye—and why it matters more than we realize.Five Tasks of DyingThis podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.When you find a "mustard seed," please share the address of this podcast with a friend: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2369804/episodes/17566838Website for Braden Parsons PhotographyBraden Parsons' email:  bradencparsons@gmail.comIf you'd like to discuss your roofing needs, call Jerrie Wayne Barber, II, at 931.628.3390 This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. There is no additional charge to you.Fleecy Clouds: One Woman's Story of Surviving and Thriving After Childhood AbuseSubscribe to my two blogs:       New Shepherds Orientation       Between Preachers...

Try not to learn very much

Send me a Text Message or ask a question. — JerrieHave you ever felt overwhelmed by trying to change everything at once—and ended up changing nothing?What if real growth isn’t about learning more, but about learning less and actually using it?Could one small, “mustard seed” habit make more difference in your life than all the books, classes, and seminars combined?Why do small, consistent steps often lead to lasting change while big bursts of motivation fade so quickly?Episode 26 — Investing in Exercise 1    Episode 27 — Investing in Exercise 2   Onsite Workshops — Therapy, Counseling, & Wellness Retreats  This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.When you find a "mustard seed," please share the address of this podcast with a friend: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2369804/episodes/17566838Website for Braden Parsons PhotographyBraden Parsons' email:  bradencparsons@gmail.comIf you'd like to discuss your roofing needs, call Jerrie Wayne Barber, II, at 931.628.3390 This podcast is brought to you in conjunction with the Ministry League Network.As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. There is no additional charge to you.Fleecy Clouds: One Woman's Story of Surviving and Thriving After Childhood AbuseSubscribe to my two blogs:       New Shepherds Orientation       Between Preachers...