Is context DEAD? | And Toni's got BIG news
Is it a furfuckle or a kerfuffle? Whatever it is, Toni's found herself in one and she's speaking on it. Context really is everything, clips get twisted online, and honestly we might be living through a nuance epidemic. Toni and Producer Annisha also get into your dilemmas this week, from a mother in law who still won't accept a marriage eight months on, to a woman stuck between running from her ex and running towards someone new.Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code TONITOLD at Emma Sleep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dating With Discernment
Toni's talking dating with discernment this week, because sometimes what feels like chemistry is actually just desperation for connection in disguise 👀 Plus in Teatime with Toni, Producer Annisha joins to unpack two listener dilemmas: one on realising your relationship has become your whole identity, and another on the difference between grieving a person and grieving the routine you built around them!Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code TONITOLD at Emma Sleep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Beauty Maxxing... Are we taking it too far?
Beauty maxxing is everywhere right now 👀 Toni's unpacking soft maxxing vs hard maxxing, whether it's genuine empowerment or insecurity wearing a cute filter, plus her own routine, the things she regrets and the things that were 100% worth it. But here's the thing... you can maxx your face all you want, at the end of the day character maxxing matters more. Being good looking doesn't change whether you're actually a good person! In Tea Time with Toni, Toni and Producer Annisha help solve your dilemmas! What would you do if your boyfriend was telling you to get lip filler??Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code TONITOLD at Emma Sleep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We NEED to talk about Aunties...
Toni's unpacking Auntie Culture this week. The backhanded compliments, the double standards and the self appointed board of directors who somehow have an opinion on everything you do. Plus, what happens when your mum starts planning your wedding before you've even picked a path for yourself...and is rushing into marriage really the answer she thinks it is?Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code TONITOLD at Emma Sleep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
People pleasers NEVER win!!!
Toni's talking people pleasing this week and why it never actually pays off 😩 Plus Teatime with Toni is back with Producer Annisha for two juicy dilemmas: a listener who found something in her boyfriend's wallet that isn't hers, and another grieving her relationship with her mum after a new marriage changed everything. Then it's Sisterhood Spotlight, breaking down why people pleasing is costing you more than you think ☕️Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/ToniToldMe — new episodes drop every Friday!Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code TONITOLD at Emma Sleep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.