Love After Lies

21: The Miracle of Forgiveness

Send us a textIn this episode of "Love After Lies," Avonlea and Josh share their transformative journey from betrayal to forgiveness. They recount their experiences at a healing retreat in Costa Rica, where they explored the power of plant medicine and its impact on their relationship. Join them as they discuss the challenges of healing, the importance of setting and intention, and the profound insights gained through their journey. Whether you're navigating your own path to healing or simply curious about alternative therapies, this episode offers a candid and heartfelt exploration of love, forgiveness, and personal growth.Resources:Inside Out Health Podcast: JOSH TRENT Breathwork, Ayahuasca, and Following Your HeartCollective Insights Podcast: Plant Medicine - Dr. Jeff McNairy - PsychedelicsHuberman Lab Podcast: The Science of Psychedelics for Mental HealthHuberman Lab Podcast: Psychedelics & Neurostimulation for Brain Rewiring

20: Viral Infidelity & the Coldplay “Kiss Cam” Scandal—Why Betrayal Hurts So Deeply

Send us a textWhen a viral Coldplay concert “Kiss Cam” exposed two married executives in a shocking affair, the world turned it into a meme—but for the betrayed spouses and families, it was anything but funny.In this episode, we pause our personal story to unpack why infidelity is so devastating—through the lens of science, faith, and lived experience. You’ll discover:The different types of affairs (emotional affair, one-night stand, sexual addiction, micro-cheating, and more)Why betrayal trauma shatters us at the deepest level of attachment and trustInsights from The Betrayal Bind by Michelle Mays on the science of bonding, attachment, and heartbreakThe cultural tendency to treat infidelity casually, and the real emotional and spiritual cost for those involvedWhether you’re healing from infidelity, supporting someone after betrayal, or simply want to understand why cheating hurts so much, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and hope.👉 Subscribe for more episodes on betrayal trauma recovery, marriage healing, faith-based coaching, and emotional resilience. Share this with someone who needs encouragement in the aftermath of betrayal.

19: Nothing Left to Hide: Rebuilding Intimacy Through Truth and Surrender

Send us a textIn this deeply personal episode, the hosts share their journey from betrayal to healing, highlighting the powerful role of truth and vulnerability in rebuilding intimacy. They reflect on the aftermath of Full Therapeutic Disclosure, the emotional reconnection that followed, and the hard but hopeful road of reintegration after separation. The episode confronts common excuses for secrecy—like “I don’t want to hurt them”—and exposes how withholding truth only deepens the damage. With honesty, faith, and intentional recovery work, they show that real connection is only possible when there’s nothing left to hide.

18: When the Airplane Isn't a Time Machine

Send us a textIn this deeply personal solo episode, Avonlea shares the raw and unfiltered story of what happened after Full Therapeutic Disclosure—including the moments of panic, regret, and resistance that followed. From symbolic decisions like removing her wedding ring to the anxiety of traveling post-disclosure, she opens up about the emotional toll of navigating betrayal, addiction recovery, and marriage restoration.She reflects on journal entries written in the depths of despair—honest words many in similar pain will recognize—and explains how Scripture, travel, and intentional distance played a role in her healing. Avonlea also teases what’s ahead: her return to Oregon, living together again after four months apart, and the launch of her upcoming coaching program.This episode is a lifeline for anyone wondering if they can survive the darkness and ever feel whole again.👉 Subscribe and share with someone who needs hope.

17. Full Therapeutic Disclosure & Polygraph: Why We Did It

Send us a textIn this raw and informative episode, we take you inside one of the most pivotal (and most controversial) moments in our healing journey after infidelity: Full Therapeutic Disclosure (FTD) and the use of a polygraph.We talk about why we chose to go through this difficult, costly, and emotionally intense process, despite skepticism from well-meaning friends and family. You'll hear:What Full Therapeutic Disclosure really is (and isn’t)Why a polygraph can be a powerful tool for rebuilding trustHow we prepared for our 3-day intensive with Comfort Christian CounselingThe role humility, honesty, and faith played in our processWhat Scripture says about truth and why it matters in recoveryIf you're navigating betrayal trauma, sexual addiction recovery, or just beginning to seek truth in your relationship, this episode offers hope, practical insight, and spiritual grounding. Truth-telling is painful—but it’s also holy. And with the right support, it can be the beginning of freedom.📝 Resources mentioned in the episode:Comfort Christian CounselingStephen Cabler, Polygraph Examiner🙏 We pray for our listeners daily. You are not alone.