Something About Soulmates

Oliver and Polly (Part 1): When Ha-Ha Turns Into Holy Sh*t (A Polyamory Story)

In this episode we talk about:  >> Polyamory and the wilderness of loving more than one person >> Finding your soulmate when you weren't looking >> Radical honesty and living a self-directed life  Polly and Oliver started as coworkers (actually, Polly was Oliver's boss) during a time when they were both dating other people. For a while, they ha-ha'ed their way around their uncanny connection, until they just couldn't deny it any more. But they had some big questions to answer, like: how do you honor an existing non-monogamous partnership while stepping into something new? What do you tell the people who know you as someone else? And how do you create healthy boundaries in an unfamiliar relationship structure? In this episode, Polly and Oliver share about what happens when life hands you a soulmate you didn't expect, the power of radical honesty, and the courage it takes to create a life and a love entirely on your own terms.  >> Stay tuned for part 2, where Polly and Oliver take us behind the scenes into the inner workings of the business they co-own (and what it takes to run a business with your spouse). Spoiler: they're geniuses.    More About Your Hosts:  Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.   Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.    Additional Links: Find Polly and Oliver at unlockcollective.co and instagram.com/unlockcollective. Hire them!  For more on polyamory, check out some of Polly and Oliver's favorite creators: @morethan2love @chillpolyamory @chaneespeaks @lavitaloca34 @bygabriellesmith And listen to these podcasts:  Multiamory The Secure Love Podcast Relationship Diversity Podcast I Could Never…   ADVERTISE WITH US >> Let us hype you up! Human-written, affordable, community powered ad spots to help us cover three months of our production costs. Click HERE to advertise with us! PERSONAL ADS >> Looking for your soulmate? Publish your personal ad on our show and tell your future lover where to find you. Click HERE to fill out our interest form.  BE ON OUR SHOW >> Do you know a little something about soulmates? We'd love to host you on our show. Click here to learn more and sign up.  This episode's edit was by Grace Heerman (aka Long Tail Media).  The art for our show was created by Gay Ghost Design. Music for this episode by Epidemic Sound and APM Music.  Find us on Substack and Instagram.

Cameron and Pom: In Defense of Loving Your Dog This Much

We released this episode on Valentine's Day on purpose because it captures love at its most honest. Cameron spent her life chasing a dream job in marine mammal care, only to realize that achieving it was taking a serious toll on her health. As she worked to untangle her identity from her work, a new dog tippy-tapped into her life and became an unlikely anchor, offering presence, steadiness, and a kind of support she had never expected or experienced.  Cameron reflects on being understood without words, what animals can teach us about care and communication, and why some of the most sustaining relationships in our lives might cross species. If you've ever loved an animal like family, this one's for you.   More About Your Hosts:  Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.  Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.    Additional Links: Connect with Cameron and Pom at @pawsandrelaxwithcameron, @camddawg, and @pomelaanderson_bythebay. If you live near Monterey, California, head to Peace of Mind Dog Rescue to find your own doggy soulmate. ADVERTISE WITH US >> Let us hype you up! Human-written, affordable, community powered ad spots to help us cover three months of our production costs. Click HERE to advertise with us! PERSONAL ADS >> Looking for your soulmate? Publish your personal ad on our show and tell your future lover where to find you. Click HERE to fill out our interest form.  BE ON OUR SHOW >> Do you know a little something about soulmates? We'd love to host you on our show. Click here to learn more and sign up.  This episode's edit was by Grace Heerman (aka Long Tail Media). The art for our show was created by Gay Ghost Design. Music for this episode by Epidemic Sound and APM Music. Find us on Substack and Instagram.  

Trailer: Season Two

Meet the couples you'll be hearing from on season two of Something About Soulmates: Two best friends and next-door neighbors who didn't know they were yearning for each other for years An animal behavior expert whose job was slowly crushing her, and whose Pomeranian brings more to the table than any boyfriend ever has Two women who found each other later in life, and never once questioned that this partnership was their path to healing A couple who tried non-monogamy, chose monogamy (for now), and believe their past is exactly what makes their relationship work Y'all, there is GOOD STUFF coming. The first episode of season two drops February 14th! See you there.  

Season Two Sneak Peek

Is it just us or does the world really need some love stories right now? Don't worry, we're on it. Welcome to season two! Our first full episode is dropping Feb. 14, but in the meantime, we're sharing clips from our upcoming interviews and introducing you to the all-star lovers of season two. These lovers are trainers of Navy seals (ahem, we mean sea lions), business partners, mothers, best friends, and motorcyclists. One of them has four legs. And all of them have taught us something new about what it means to be and be loved by a soulmate. We missed you! We are so glad to be back!   More About Your Hosts:  Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.socoandco.com.  Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.    Additional Links: ADVERTISE WITH US >> Let us hype you up! Human-written, affordable, community powered ad spots to help us cover three months of our production costs. Click HERE to advertise with us! PERSONAL ADS >> Looking for your soulmate? Publish your personal ad on our show and tell your future lover where to find you. Click HERE to fill out our interest form.  BE ON OUR SHOW >> Do you know a little something about soulmates? We'd love to host you on our show. Click here to learn more and sign up.  This episode's edit was by Grace Heerman (aka Long Tail Media). The art for our show was created by Gay Ghost Design. Music for this episode by Epidemic Sound. Find us on Substack and Instagram.

Darla and Nadia: Falling in Love for the First Time, After Marriage

Darla and Nadia's love story began after the soulmate myth had already been dismantled for one of them. In this episode, they reflect on growing up with a narrow idea of what love was "supposed" to look like, and how unlearning those beliefs reshaped what they thought was possible. What followed surprised them both: a relationship that formed quickly, demanded emotional presence from the start, and gently revealed that soulmates aren't found; perhaps they're built through care, communication, and shared vision.   More About Your Hosts:  Anna Socolofsky is a queer wedding officiant and ceremony designer serving soulmates in Portland, OR and beyond. There is nothing she loves more than cheering folks on. You can learn more about her work (and inquire about booking her for your wedding!) at www.ecstaticceremonies.com.  Grace Heerman is a journalist and podcast producer who tells stories that make people stop, listen, and care. You can find out more about Grace at www.graceheerman.com. If you've been waiting for the right moment to launch a podcast that moves people, reach out to Grace at www.longtailmedia.co.    Additional Links: Do you know a little something about soulmates? We'd love to host you on our show. Learn more and sign up.  This episode's edit is by Grace Heerman (aka Long Tail Media). The art for our show was created by Gay Ghost Design. Hire Darla for your wedding or couples photoshoot. Music for this episode by Epidemic Sound. Find us on Substack and Instagram.