123. Understanding Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders with Dr. Anthony Mazzella, PhD

Understanding Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Disorders with Dr. Anthony Mazzella, PhD

In this episode of 'Healing From Toxic Abuse,' host welcomes Dr. Anthony Mazzella, a psychoanalyst with over 20 years of experience specializing in psychodynamic treatment focusing on narcissistic and borderline presentations. The conversation delves into recognizing the hidden dynamics of narcissistic abuse, the unique insights psychodynamic treatments offer, and the common struggles survivors face in reclaiming their identities and boundaries. Dr. Mazzella shares his journey into psychoanalysis, observations on personality disorders, the nuances between narcissistic traits and malignant forms, the overlap with borderline personality disorder, and effective strategies for both individuals and couples dealing with these complex issues. He also highlights the importance of self-reflection, insight, and compassion in the healing process.

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Anthony Mazzella

01:56 Dr. Mazzella's Journey into Psychoanalysis

04:33 Understanding Narcissistic Characteristics

06:03 Misunderstandings and Realities of Narcissism

11:38 Narcissism vs. Borderline Personality Disorder

22:31 Red Flags and Early Warning Signs

28:23 Understanding Gaslighting and Narcissism

30:37 Addressing Hurtful Comments in Relationships

31:30 Steps to Address Malignant Intent

32:56 Validating and Confronting Narcissistic Behavior

40:32 Psychodynamic Treatment Approach

49:13 Hope and Treatment for Narcissism

50:57 Final Thoughts and Resources

To learn more about Dr. Mazzella, visit:

 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/

To learn more about the host, Deborah Ashway, LCMHCS, LCAS, visit:

www.InnerSourceTherapy.com