EP 23: Holding Space with Bonkosi Horn

2021-03-16

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I realize my tagline for this episode is a little cryptic, but when I was listening to this interview this idea of a space that brings people together kept coming back in my mind again and again. There are some people who are really good at holding space - and what I mean by that is making people feel comfortable, seen, heard, and valued. These might not feel like tangible things, but I assure you, they absolutely are. Space doesn't always mean a physical space with four walls. Sometimes it is, but so...

I realize my tagline for this episode is a little cryptic, but when I was listening to this interview this idea of a space that brings people together kept coming back in my mind again and again.

There are some people who are really good at holding space - and what I mean by that is making people feel comfortable, seen, heard, and valued.

These might not feel like tangible things, but I assure you, they absolutely are.

Space doesn't always mean a physical space with four walls. Sometimes it is, but sometimes it’s just a feeling. A feeling you get when you are somewhere you can be completely comfortable. And if you don’t know what I mean, you are a very, very lucky person who has never been somewhere where they weren’t welcomed.

My guest today is a person who makes space. Bon - aka Bonkosi - Horn, owns a retail space in Philadelphia. They are not currently open to the public right now, but still, the mission and vision she had for her shop, Freedom Apothecary, is still alive and well. She is still bringing people together all while quarantining at home with a brand new baby.

If you are lucky enough to meet Bonkosi, you will instantly know what I am talking about. She connects deeply and thoughtfully within 5 seconds of meeting her and she remembers everyone in a way that is truly a gift.

There is so much wisdom within this one little woman, I am excited for you to get to know a little more about her and her work in the world.

Listen to the full episode to hear:

How Bonkosi is transforming retail spaces into space where people can connect rather than just buy—and how that changed after the pandemic
How Bonkosi is breaking the rules in the wellness industry by creating boundaries
What the last year has looked like for Bonkosi’s personal and professional life, including her business partner moving from Philadelphia to New Orleans, having a baby, and growing a business mid-pandemic.
Bonkosi’s perspective on accepting versus embracing

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