Civility Is Not Silence: How to Talk Politics with Courage with Project Civility’s Jeff Worrell

Chris Spangle sits down with Carmel City Councilor Jeff Worrell to discuss Project Civility and why disagreement is not something to avoid but a path toward stronger communities. They explore how civility is not about silence or politeness but about creating the groundwork for meaningful conversations on politics, religion, and tough issues. Worrell shares the core principles behind managing conflict, finding common ground, and staying in relationship—even when opinions clash. Learn why courage, listening, and respect are essential for building healthier dialogue in a divided time.

To learn more or attend the upcoming Project Civility Summit, visit projectcivility.com.

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00:00 Introduction & Recent Events

02:16 What is Civility? Setting the Stage

05:20 Guest Introduction: Jeff Worrell

07:07 All About Carmel, Indiana

14:15 Building Community & Connection

17:36 Isolation, Fear, and Neighborly Issues

18:48 The Value of Disagreement

21:20 Courage, Empathy & Covenant Friendships

23:36 Techniques for Difficult Conversations

26:01 Listening, Pivoting, and Respect

29:00 Defining Civility & Handling Critiques

31:32 Civility is Not Weakness

34:08 Why People Retreat From Conversation

37:20 Navigating Disappointment & Speaking Boldly

40:12 Responding to Uncivil Politics

43:03 The Birth of Project Civility

46:39 The Civility Summit & Spreading the Message

48:23 How to Get Involved & Final Thoughts

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