88: Finances at 40

Life moves in seasons. Some that grow you gently, and some that split you wide open. As Bridget steps into her 40s this week, she’s looking back on her 20s and 30s with honesty, humour, grief, and gratitude. Aging is something we all experience, but rarely talk about with this kind of openness.

In this episode of Money Feels, we’re exploring the emotional, financial, and identity shifts that happen as you move through decades of your life. We unpack how money shaped each season, what she wishes she’d known sooner, and why getting older is not something to fear, it’s something to grow into.

We’re your hosts, Alyssa and Bridget. Welcome to the podcast where we talk about the emotional side of money and how life stages, identity shifts, and the pursuit of “enough” shape our financial lives far more than budgets ever could.

In today’s episode, we discuss:

• What Bridget’s 20s actually looked like
• The pressure, comparison, and self-doubt that defined parts of her 30s
• How her relationship with money shifted
• What turning 40 is bringing up emotionally and financially
• The biggest myths we’re taught about what life “should” look like
• Why aging feels both tender and empowering
• The unexpected gifts of getting older: softness, self-trust, boundaries, clarity
• What she hopes her 40s will feel like (spoiler: less hustle, more peace)

This episode explores what it means to evolve, to outgrow versions of yourself, and to realize that your 20s and 30s don’t define you — they prepare you. It’s a reminder that there is no right timeline, no perfect milestone checklist, and no deadline for becoming who you want to be.

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