Men, Sex and Porn - what needs to change, with Axel Reigns

2026-01-22

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This week on Come Curious, we’re joined by award-winning porn performer and creator Axel Reigns for one of our most powerful conversations yet. Axel pulls back the curtain on the porn industry to talk about what really needs to change - from male accountability and consent culture, to calling out abuse, complicity, and silence in spaces that are meant to be safe. We get honest about power, responsibility, and why “not all men” simply isn’t good enough anymore. Axel doesn’t just critique - they offer a vision of w...

This week on Come Curious, we’re joined by award-winning porn performer and creator Axel Reigns for one of our most powerful conversations yet.

Axel pulls back the curtain on the porn industry to talk about what really needs to change - from male accountability and consent culture, to calling out abuse, complicity, and silence in spaces that are meant to be safe.

We get honest about power, responsibility, and why “not all men” simply isn’t good enough anymore. Axel doesn’t just critique - they offer a vision of what better could look like, both inside the industry and far beyond it.

If you care about sex, safety, ethics, and doing better (without shame spirals), this one’s essential listening.

Get to know Axel's work on IG @axel.reigns

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