When You Want to Change Your Husband

Melissa talks with Ann Wilson about the power of words in marriage and the importance of speaking life to one's spouse.

Ann recounts a memorable turning point in her 45-year marriage when she realized her many attempts to help or “tweak” her husband were having the opposite effect than intended. They talk about recognizing that every marriage has peaks and valleys and give practical advice for getting through the hard seasons.

Recommended Resources:

• How to Speak Life to Your Husband: When All You Want to Do Is Yell at Him by Ann Wilson
• The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller

Related Content:

• The Deep Dish: Married for Good
• Tim and Kathy Keller on Marriage in Gospel Focus
• A Biblical View of Marriage

Discussion Questions:

1. Share a bit of your story—if you’re married, how did you and your husband meet? If you’re single, what relationships or experiences have shaped your view of marriage?

2. How have you seen yourself and your husband grow or change over the years?

3. How has God used marriage (or relationships) as a tool to shape your character and deepen your walk with Christ?

4. In what ways would you like to use your words more wisely, especially in prayer and in communication with your husband (or with others in your life)?

5. How do you discern when to extend grace and overlook an offense versus when to gently address it? How can you communicate truth in love in those moments?

6. What are some intentional ways you can encourage your husband, honor him, or “fill his tank” (or the “tanks” of others in your life) this week?

7. How can your discussion partners pray for you and your marriage?

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