My Parent Went to the Nursing Home... Now What?

What happens when a loved one suddenly needs nursing home care and you've done absolutely no prior planning? The financial devastation can be overwhelming, but according to elder law attorneys Greg and Jordan McIntyre, all hope is not lost.

This father-son legal team walks through the stark reality of crisis planning for long-term care. They contrast the difficult path of guardianship proceedings—which require court oversight, hearings, and months of legal work—with the protection offered by properly drafted powers of attorney. As Jordan explains, "If there's a limitation on the gifting provision, it could hinder my ability to protect assets." Not all legal documents are created equal, and standard forms rarely contain the specific provisions needed for effective asset protection.

For married couples facing nursing home placement, the McIntyres offer particular hope. Even without prior planning, strategies exist to implement the "community spouse resource allowance" and other legal mechanisms that can preserve significant assets for the healthy spouse. They explain how the rules allow for protecting your home and savings while still qualifying for benefits you've paid for through years of tax contributions. As Greg notes, "The real power is being able to know the rules so well that you operate out in the open... within our rules that we allow."

The attorneys emphasize that crisis planning isn't about hiding assets but working strategically within established legal frameworks. While proactive planning always offers the most protection, their practice includes a dedicated department for helping families in emergency situations. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an immediate care need, understanding these legal strategies could save everything you've worked for. Schedule a free consultation to learn how proper planning can protect your family's financial future.