180: Big Depth Energy: Masculine Leadership Without the Alpha Male Bullshit and Redefining ”BDE” feat. Ross Lewin

2026-07-09

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Podcast SummaryThis week, Elle and Vee sit down with Ross Lewin, founder of @embodi.men and creator of the Big Depth Energy Method, to unpack what modern masculinity actually looks like. They dive into why so many good men struggle with dating, how confidence gets confused with arrogance, and why consent, leadership, and emotional depth are the real turn-ons. From play parties and pickup artists to tantra, ENM, and healing men's relationship with themselves, this conversation challenges nearly everything we've been taught about attraction.Chapters(00:00) What Is Big Depth...

Podcast Summary

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Ross Lewin, founder of @embodi.men and creator of the Big Depth Energy Method, to unpack what modern masculinity actually looks like. They dive into why so many good men struggle with dating, how confidence gets confused with arrogance, and why consent, leadership, and emotional depth are the real turn-ons. From play parties and pickup artists to tantra, ENM, and healing men's relationship with themselves, this conversation challenges nearly everything we've been taught about attraction.

Chapters

(00:00) What Is Big Depth Energy?

(05:20) Ross's Confidence Journey

(08:00) The Pickup Artist Trap

(10:00) Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys

(14:00) Inside Big Depth Energy

(18:30) Authenticity Is Attractive

(22:10) Living Your "Fuck Yes"

(25:00) The Power of Female Friendships

(27:40) Approaching Without Pressure

(31:45) Should Women Make the First Move?

(36:30) The Art of the Invitation

(41:40) Why Men Don't Approach

(46:00) Receiving "No" Gracefully

(50:10) Respecting Boundaries

(54:35) Their Open Relationship

(59:20) Coming Back Together

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Guest: Ross Lewin
Website: Embodimen Big Depth Energy Method™
Instagram: @embodi.men
Vetted Online Community: Sacred Society
Creator Of: Affirmation Sluts - positive dirty talk.

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