Mitch Warner: Leadership and Self-Deception
Mitch Warner is a managing partner of the Arbinger Institute. The Institute has authored three best-selling books and helps leaders transform their organizations by enabling the fundamental shift in mindset that leads to exceptional results. Now in it’s fourth edition, Leadership and Self-Deception: The Secret to Transforming Relationships & Unleashing Results*, is today one of the top fifty best-selling leadership books of all time.
Shifting behavior in a sustainable way r...
Mitch Warner: Leadership and Self-Deception
Mitch Warner is a managing partner of the Arbinger Institute. The Institute has authored three best-selling books and helps leaders transform their organizations by enabling the fundamental shift in mindset that leads to exceptional results. Now in it’s fourth edition, Leadership and Self-Deception: The Secret to Transforming Relationships & Unleashing Results*, is today one of the top fifty best-selling leadership books of all time.
Shifting behavior in a sustainable way requires us to change our mindset. In this conversation, Mitch and I explore how self-deception gets in our way and how we can take the first step by seeing others as people.
Key Points
- In many cases, we are the carriers of the very problems we are complaining about. We often resist this reality.
- We often assume we aren’t the cause of problems because of our good intentions.
- Mindset drives our behaviors and the effectiveness and influence of those behaviors.
- Seeing someone as less than a person causes us to see the world in a way that justifies our judgement.
- Too often, conflicts manifest as people provoking another’s behavior in order to justify themselves.
- Our own justification is an indicator that we may be wrong to being with.
- Viewing others as either better or worse than ourselves creates justification that prevents awareness and change.
- Get outside of yourself by meeting to learn about them. If the relationship has been strained, consider meeting to give.
Resources Mentioned
- Leadership and Self-Deception: The Secret to Transforming Relationships & Unleashing Results* by The Arbinger Institute
- The Arbinger Institute
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