EP358: Season 2 coming in Hot - Has self-abandonment become the sneaky go to in your life?

Welcome to Season 2 of Lead with the Enneagram - things are about to get very real.

On this episode of Lead with the Enneagram, I dive into the concept of self-abandonment and its profound impact on our relationships and overall well-being. Self-abandonment is often done with the intention of being a better partner, friend, or family member. However, this behavior actually hinders personal growth and deprives others of the opportunity to learn from their own experiences.
I share personal examples of my own codependent tendencies in various relationships, highlighting the different ways in which self-abandonment can manifest.

I reflect on how self-abandonment may seem like the right thing to do or a way to maintain control and certainty in life. However, this pattern of behavior ultimately prevents us from living the fulfilling life we deserve and desire.

I also discuss how self-abandonment can be passed down through generations, affecting not only the individual but also their children and how we are leading by example, as children tend to emulate their parents' actions rather than their words.

What you will learn on this episode:

• How to Start Healing Codependency
• The different ways in which self-abandonment can manifest
• Things in our lives that we cannot outrun or outthink
• The importance of vulnerability when connecting with others
• How Self Abandonment impacts our relationships & well-being
• The Relationship Between Self-abandonment and Personal Growth
• How Self-Abandonment is a Generational Trait
• What is preventing you from living the life you deserve

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