IF YOU WANT TO LEAD YOUR WOMAN, BE BETTER THAN YOUR WOMANIf you want to lead anybody, be better than them.This is the core demand of leadership. We want to be led by our betters. We don’t want to be led by people we look down upon.This applies to any and all hierarchically relationships. Teachers need to be better than their students. Parents need to be better than their children. Leaders need to be better than their followers.If you as a man want to lead your woman in your relati...
IF YOU WANT TO LEAD YOUR WOMAN, BE BETTER THAN YOUR WOMAN
If you want to lead anybody, be better than them.
This is the core demand of leadership. We want to be led by our betters. We don’t want to be led by people we look down upon.
This applies to any and all hierarchically relationships. Teachers need to be better than their students. Parents need to be better than their children. Leaders need to be better than their followers.
If you as a man want to lead your woman in your relationship, be better than your woman.
There is no happy relationship in which the woman looks down on her man.
There is no happy relationship is which the woman thinks, ‘I’m better than this man.’ There are no exceptions to this fundamental principle of leadership and hierarchy.
The fact that women are only attracted to men who are better than them in itself is an indicator that women are in fact looking to be in an hierarchical dynamic with men. Their core attraction principle towards men is a principle of leadership and hierarchy.
Men, on their part, need to stop making excuses for not delivering, not measuring up, for remaining infantile, wounded, slack and then still expecting their women to submit to them. This can never happen. It is illogical. It is against the very programing in women’s DNAs. In is against the programing in all of our DNAs.
WE DON’T FOLLOW PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT OUR BETTERS.
No amount of polarity theory and learning is going to make up for the lack in your superiority to your woman. The core way you dominate a woman is by being better than her and her thinking and feeling day after day that you are in fact better than her.
If a woman is happily surrendering and submitting to you, you can bet your bank account that she in fact does think and feel that you are better than her.
If you want to inspire a woman to surrender and submit to you, make yourself better than her.
As soon as your woman starts feeling that she is better than you, your relationships is heading down the toilet. Do something about that immediately.
If you as a woman feel you are better than any given man, don’t even bother trying to create anything with that man. It’s pointless.
If in an ongoing relationship, you as a woman start to feel that you are better and superior to the man you are with, recognize that as the death knell of this particular relationship.
— Om Rupani
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