How to Talk to Teens About Sex

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:10 - The Five R's Framework for Difficult Conversations

4:58 - How Phones Are Destroying Teen Connection & Intimacy

7:08 - Talking to Kids About Porn: The Social Justice Approach

10:12 - What to Do When Your Kid Watches Porn (Real Parent Story)

14:34 - The Power of Repair in All Relationships

20:30 - Navigating Gender, Pronouns & Sexual Identity with Kids

28:26 - Why We Need to Stop Gendering Empathy

34:00 - Raising Sexually Healthy Humans Without Being Weird

38:30 - My Teenager Found My Vibrator: What Now?

39:46 - Five Quickfire Questions on Sex & Relationships