This week, Sophie and Emma finally have the conversation they've been avoiding for months (maybe years): what beauty spending actually costs women over a lifetime, and whether skipping it is a luxury anyone can afford. They get very honest about what they've personally spent on Botox, filler and laser, then run the numbers on what that money could be worth if invested instead. Plus they unpack why workplace ageism means looking young isn't just about vanity, and whether the "transparency era" of plastic surgery is helping women or just normalising more of it. At some point it stops being about beauty and starts being about tradeoffs; this...
This week, Sophie and Emma finally have the conversation they've been avoiding for months (maybe years): what beauty spending actually costs women over a lifetime, and whether skipping it is a luxury anyone can afford. They get very honest about what they've personally spent on Botox, filler and laser, then run the numbers on what that money could be worth if invested instead. Plus they unpack why workplace ageism means looking young isn't just about vanity, and whether the "transparency era" of plastic surgery is helping women or just normalising more of it. At some point it stops being about beauty and starts being about tradeoffs; this episode just puts numbers on them.
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WTF does that mean? A guide to all the jargony bits:
Compound interest Money making money, then that money making money too.
Opportunity cost What you gave up by spending it on your face instead.
ROI Return on investment, or "was it worth it" with a number attached.
Motherhood penalty The pay cut nobody signs up for but most mums get anyway.
Economic inactivity rate The percentage of people not working and not looking for it either.
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Chapters
- 00:00:00 Coming up in this episode …
- 00:01:20 The Curve x Generate
- 00:01:50 In the red or the green?
- 00:05:44 The pressure of beauty standards
- 00:18:22 How much Soph and Emma have spent
- 00:26:35 Is transparency helping us?
- 00:34:29 The financial cost of procedures
- 00:48:43 The Curve x Generate
- 00:49:29 The professional cost of staying natural
- 01:03:06 Thanks for listening!
- 01:05:01 Financial disclaimer
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