Episode 132. The Lie of Best-Selfism

This episode tackles the cultural lie of Best-Selfism — the belief that personal happiness and fulfillment should be the highest priorities in life, often at the expense of faith and family. Host Amy Davison argues that this ideology, endorsed by celebrities like Tom Brady and various influencers, is a destructive blend of emotionalism, self-help, and idol worship. Contrasting this worldview, they uplift Scotty Scheffler’s Christ-centered perspective, where faith and family take precedence over personal or professional success. The episode emphasizes the biblical model of self-denial, sacrificial love, and discipleship within the home.

​Main Points Covered

• Definition and Dangers of Best Selfism
• Examples in Culture
• Biblical Response to Best Selfism
• Spiritual and Cultural Consequences
• How to Combat the Lie of Best-Selfism

Resources & Organizations Mentioned

Scriptures:

• Genesis 3 – The original lie and temptation
• Exodus 6:7 – God claiming His people
• 1 Peter 2:9 – Our identity in Christ
• 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, 6:20 – Transformation and honoring God with our bodies
• Matthew 16:24 – Deny self and follow Christ
• Mark 12:29-30, Deuteronomy 6:5 – Love God and neighbor
• Matthew 28:19-20 – The Great Commission
• Deuteronomy 6:6-9 – Discipleship in the home
• Colossians 2:8, 3:23-24 – Avoid deceptive philosophy, work for the Lord
• 2 Corinthians 10:5 – Take every thought captive
• 2 Timothy 1:7 – Spirit of power and self-discipline
• 1 Peter 3:15 – Defend faith with gentleness
• Ephesians 5:21-33, 6:4 – Mutual submission and discipling children

Other Resources:

• Scottie Scheffler Statement
• Scheffler's Response to Tom Brady
• Tom Brady's Newsletter

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