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Tuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette

2025-11-25

Send us a textTuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette | Episode 84In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another intriguing “Tuesday Talks” listener question .This week’s anonymous caller shares that they’re used to the structure, etiquette, and quiet focus of BDSM environments, but they also love the thrill of being watched in swinger clubs. Recently, while playing in an open room at Trapeze Atlanta, they found themselves distracted and frustrated when pe...

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Tuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette | Episode 84

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another intriguing “Tuesday Talks” listener question .

This week’s anonymous caller shares that they’re used to the structure, etiquette, and quiet focus of BDSM environments, but they also love the thrill of being watched in swinger clubs. Recently, while playing in an open room at Trapeze Atlanta, they found themselves distracted and frustrated when people nearby carried on loud conversations during their scene. In BDSM spaces, that kind of behavior would be a big no — but is it normal in swinger spaces? And would they be out of line to ask people around them to keep it down?

Dan and Lacy break down the differences in culture between kink dungeons and swinger playrooms, why swinger environments tend to be more social and less structured, and how to navigate your boundaries without killing the vibe. From communication tips to setting expectations, they help this listener find the balance between enjoying their exhibitionist side and still honoring the energy they need during intimate play.

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