EP#149: How to Create a Throuple Dynamic That Lasts

Understanding the Needs (00:00:01) Exploring how unmet needs can impact behavior and relationships.

Coaching and Topics of Interest (00:01:17) Jennifer Kaylo's coaching topics and interests including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling.

Creating a Lasting Throuple Dynamic (00:02:42) Addressing the lack of resources for creating a lasting throuple dynamic and introducing the aim of the episode.

Recognizing Individual Differences (00:03:50) Emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and understanding the individual needs and patterns of each partner.

Love Languages and Erotic Blueprints (00:05:04) Exploring the use of love language and erotic blueprint quizzes to understand and fulfill partners' needs.

Dealing with Triggers (00:09:42) Discussing the importance of listening and softening when triggered in a throuple or quad relationship.

Finding Common Ground (00:12:04) Encouraging the identification and focus on shared interests and common ground in the relationship.

Managing Jealousy (00:13:20) Addressing the inevitability of jealousy and providing guidance on dealing with it in throuple dynamics.

Individuality and Responsibility (00:16:40) Emphasizing the concept of individuation and taking responsibility for one's own feelings and actions.

Establishing Patterns for Safety (00:17:45) Discussing the importance of creating patterns for safety and building trust in the relationship.

Seeking Professional Support (00:20:59) Highlighting the benefits of hiring a coach for guidance and support in maintaining a lasting throuple dynamic.

Erotic Blueprint Quiz

5 Love Languages Quiz

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