It’s not your job because your a mom

Society has lied to us. And we nearly fell for it. I mean, I did fall for it for a while and then I learned better.

Growing up I learned that as a mom, it was our duty to sacrifice all and take care of everyone else.

Media teaches us this, my parents taught me this, and my religion.

And the thing is… it's all a lie.

There is nothing that triggers me more than when I hear women say, "my husband asks me what I do all day if the house isn't clean."

I mean, the amount of pressure that is placed upon us as women… no wonder we feel as though we are drowning + failing at everything.

I used to have this constant thought of never doing enough.

I couldn't stay on top of it all and I used to wonder how women did it.

And then I had an epiphany when I heard a girl I went to high school with talk about her team on Instagram.

Whoa, what? A team? I thought she had been doing it all alone.

But the truth is, we weren't made to.

And a lot of times we have these unwritten scripts about how we 'should' behave as a mom, a husband, a woman, etc…

And the truth of it is, we are the ones who decide.

You get to choose how your life goes. What you are available for. What you aren't available for.

And you get to have support with it all.

When you are your most empowered self, you know that it's ok for people to be wrong about you.

You understand that only you need to know why you do what you do.

You get to have your inner peace + know that it's safe for others to be mad at you.

And you also know that it's not your job to try to 'fix it' when they are.

That is there's to carry and you are carrying what's yours + living your best life with pure intention and that's the vibe around here.

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