In this episode, we dive into how marriage is simple but difficult, and emphasize the importance of honest conversations.
Then we move into the main focus of the episode -- an email from a husband who feels that his wife wants to be wanted but doesn't want to want.
There are complexities of desire discrepancy and sexual frustration in every marriage. So waht do we do with them?
We also touch on the vulnerability and shame associated with discussing sexuality and the deeper parts of our lives.
Takeaways
Marriage is simple but difficult, and it requires honest conversations and a willingness to face challenges.
Desire discrepancy and sexual frustration can be common issues in marriage, and it's important to have open and honest communication about these topics.
Vulnerability and shame can play a role in the dynamics of marriage, and it's important to create a safe space for discussing sensitive topics.
Resilience and overcoming resentment in marriage require facing negative thoughts and feelings, addressing traumas, and implementing boundaries.
On the Xtended Version ...
There are 2 common attitudes people approach marriage and relationships with - an attitude of entitlement or an attitude of exposure.
We explore them and how they play out in life today.
Enjoy the show!
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The post Want To Be Wanted But Don’t Want To Want #669 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.
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