#562: Kinesthetic Learner

“You’re not listening.”

Have you said this to your son lately? Maybe he was clicking his pen or fidgeting with a toy rather than paying attention to your words.

He appears to be ignoring you. However, his annoying behavior could be what helps him understand your instructions.

Boys can’t process sentence after sentence after sentence. Typically, they are kinesthetic and learn best when physically engaged in an activity. So, rather than sitting across from your son, try talking with him while participating in an activity together. Shoulder to shoulder, rather than eye to eye.

When you need to correct your son or offer him advice, get moving. Take a walk. Go for a bike ride. Build a fort. He’s more apt to hear your message.

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